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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32–48
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 1
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Sales / Marketing
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, German (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
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Although I would much rather talk about you, I realize that I must abide by the rules of the mating ritual. Essentially, my entire sex appeal and self-worth is reduced to a picture and a few paragraphs; a brutal but honest assessment. I realize that I’m not about to win any Oscars, but I do know that I can fill a lady’s heart with laughter, wonder, and love.

If you're intrigued, read on; if not, it's all good. I'm an intelligent, well-educated, widely-traveled (42 countries), financially-secure, physically and emotionally fit, successful professional; I travel well, I look good in a suit, and I won't embarrass you in front of your family; I've dated a rock star; I can fix things in your house; I'll hike and camp pretty much anywhere with you; I'll manage to make you a fan of my sports teams; you'll develop a passion for random historical things and places; your friends will like me, and I'm a damn good cook (especially Asian food); I'm also a romantic who loves to treat a woman well. Do I have flaws? Yes, at times I'm too much of an idealist, I procrastinate, I'm always five minutes late (unless it's work, surgery, or a first date), I watch football all day on Sundays (although women have been known to entice me away from the couch, and it's only 17 days a year!), I'm a perfectionist, etc.

If I haven't convinced you yet, consider a plaque that my students once gave me. It reads: "The single, good-looking, straight, emotionally-stable, financially-secure, intelligent guy award" - with my name written underneath. At times, young people just might be more perceptive than we think.

I can honestly say that I'm a good guy. I've had some bad luck with love, but hope springs eternal. Simply put: if the chemistry is right, you will make me want to be a better person. Somehow it will all make sense.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm often asked that question, but the simple answer is: living. The question implies that one is headed towards a specific goal, but if one really knew what the future held, then what would be the point of our existence?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Learning, listening, parallel parking, traveling, scuba diving, being humbled, solving problems, being a sports fan, giving sensual massages, and keeping plants alive.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile, my integrity . . . and my worldly personality.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Brothers Karamozov, The Lord of the Rings, Ender's Game; Siddartha, The Great Gatsby, Sports Illustrated magazine, Shakespeare; anything by Kurt Vonnegut; and Playboy magazine.

Food: having truly tasted an incredible variety of cuisines, I can say that all food has its time and place, but spicy food is the best, especially from southeast Asia.

Music: Grateful Dead, jazz, blues, and one can't forget the King: Elvis Presley!

NPR Radio!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Tivo
2. Recycling
3. My martini mixer
4. Democracy
5. A woman's touch
6. My passport
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why other people do the things they do . . . .
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Towards the end of the Cold War, I managed to get arrested at an East German border crossing. I had to sign a nine-page confession admitting that I "was an agent of capitalism" and an "enemy of socialism" . . . And I drink my martinis stirred, not shaken!!
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