I'm honest, open, a gentleman(say some), fairly well off, and a bit of a bad boy once in a while. If you're wanting to find "the right one" or looking for a husband, I'm not it. That ship already sailed. I'm not looking for a lifelong partner.
Why am I on a dating website?
I am looking for interesting and like-minded friends. I am looking for people to date for a while, have fun, and enjoy the variety this short life has to offer. When I say "a while" I mean a few months, a few years, until such time as you grow weary of me and blast me into space.
I am not exclusive. It is possible to love more than one person at a time (see polyamory).
What I am not looking for is a one-night stand or a texting partner. I'd rather meet in person. There has to be a connection.
I don't expect much from this website and it has lived up to my expectations.
Why I'm visiting your profile
I've found the match percentages mean very little. The friend percentages seem a little better. I've clicked with people who have had a less than 50% match in both categories and had high enemy matches.
I do read your profile *first*. People are interesting. Please put in more than vague paragraphs. If there's no substance you are little more than a cardboard cut-out.
After reading your profile I do look at the pictures. Many of you are truly beautiful whether you might think so about yourself or not.
Then I check out personality and questions. The questions are way more fun to answer when you can compare, positive or negative, with another person's answer. I add comments to the questions and also like to read your comments to the questions. So many of these questions are vague or just plain irrelevant and comments on them provide so much more information about a person than just the contents of their profile.
If I show up a lot in your visitors, regardless of our match/friend/enemy percentages, it's because you have answered questions that I haven't so I'm adding my answers. It is *not* because I'm stalking you.
If you've made it this far then
If it's your thing, on Myers-Briggs I am ENFP/ESFP. I fall at or on 50% between intuitive and sensing.
I am well-traveled. I have lived in a place where the sun set for 4 months. I have walked through every timezone on the planet just by walking in a large circle. (Think about it. There are only two places on the planet you can do this.) I have stood on top of glaciers and walked miles through burning sands. I have hiked barefoot through the snow in a mountain pass. I have swam through an underground stream where the ceiling glowed. I have stood on a beach in winter with my bare feet in the sand warmed by a natural hot spring. I have not killed a grizzly with my bare hands nor would I want to try.
Time takes it's toll. I have the stories of a young adventurer but now I prefer to stay close to home. I do enjoy taking a long drive through the countryside in my Jeep with the top off, the wind rushing, and loud music to keep me company.
I'm nerdy, geeky, whatever you want to call it.
I have 4 cats named after moons and constellations. I'm not turning into the male equivalent of a crazy cat lady. I prefer to have only 2 pets at a time but sometimes unexpected acquisitions occur.
I am a sensualist. I am a very tactile-oriented person. Massage, caresses, hot/cold, anything that can generate interesting or pleasant sensations.
I am kinky. I am gentle. I am dominant. Take that as you will.