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  • Ages 39-69
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 18
White, Other
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Atheism and laughing about it
Post grad
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
English (Fluently), Latin (Somewhat), French (Somewhat), Danish (Somewhat)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
That stuff maybe you've heard about pursuing your passion, and the people/work/$$$ will come along? IT'S TRUE. This last year I have been studying the science of consciousness, and last spring a playwright in NYC found me in an on-line group, called me up and asked me to be her SCIENCE ADVISER! Like Richard Branson, I just said YES and everything is changing, so fast I'm breathless.

SO I found my life again after losing everything I had and everyone I loved; it happened when I stopped looking. I used to think of life as a journey, a pilgrimage with eternal purpose, and I was headed to some fabulous destination: success would come when I finally was where I needed to be, had what I wanted, was with whom I needed, whatever I spent all my life preparing for --- then I realized that would always be in the future, at a time I will never be...and I had missed the point the whole way along: LIFE is MUSIC played by the UNIVERSE so I should SING and DANCE now, with the COSMOS providing the SOUNDTRACK for my LIFE ! Want to make it a duet?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Fixing anything about a computer, seeing another's point of view, talking things through, seeing the forest (there are trees??), explaining what's happening in relationships, working to redeem a seemingly impossible situation and making it win-win.

Finally, Finding a way to make it (life-&-all) work: everywhere I am they call me THE GLUE: I fit in everywhere and I hold things together. Unfortunately this tends to make me invisible, and nobody misses me until after I'm gone and the damn thing breaks again. So when I'm gone, recycle those pieces.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm smiling. It's just so good to be here breathing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Fiction Authors: James Lee Burke (all his books), Clive Cussler, Robert Parker, Robert Charles Wilson (all), Ayn Rand (all her works), William Shakespeare (12 plays, all sonnets), Stephen Baxter, Nancy Kress (just a current list from the last 2 years), Dean Koontz, David Baldacchi, just finished another trilogy (WWW.) by R.J. Sawyer, about an emergent consciousness waking up on the internet (fascinating)

Non-Fiction this year: Max Tegmark, Susan Blackmore, Alan Watts, Thich-Nhat Hanh

Past: Tom Robbins, John Updike (all his books), Ray Bradbury (all), Robert Heinlein (all), Isaac Asimov (I, Robot, Foundation), Mark Twain (all)

If you guessed that I tend to find a really great author and explore them thoroughly, you're both perceptive and right
(does that feel good? I like to make people smile)...I did this with every classical music composer out there, too!

Non-Fiction Authors: Brian Greene, Thomas Friedman, Ray Kurzweil, Stephen Hawking, James Michener, Benoit Mandelbrot (again, from the last 2 years)

Movies: Jurassic Park, Amadeus, Indiana Jones, Lord of the Rings, Powder, Avatar, X-Men, Knowing, The Adjustment Bureau, The Matrix, Magnolia, Doctor Zhivago, Ferris Bueller's Day Off, anything Clint Eastwood, Bruce Lee, Jackie Chan, David Lynch, Alfred Hitchcock, Roman Polanski, Federico Fellini, Steven Spielberg ...

TV: The Twilight Zone (B&W w Rod Serling), Jeopardy, NCIS, Two & Half Men, The Simpsons, anything on History Channel (especially Ancient Aliens and "real" Jesus stories), Discovery, BBC, Star Trek (the Original & Next Generation), NCIS, Stargate!

Music: AfroKelt Sound System, Sting, Genesis, Berlin Philharmoniker, Academy of Ancient Music, London Philharmonic, Beatles, CSNY, this list is actually too long....35 GB in my iTunes lib, half of it classical and I still have to add my old vinyls (mostly Deutsche Grammophon)

Broadway Shows: Les Miserables #:(
Sweeney Todd ~:!
Cats `@'
Phantom of the Opera (*/.-)
Jesus Christ Superstar 0:)>
Evita |;-)
A Little Night Music >:) + <:o
Sunday in the Park with George |-/^ (painting the hat)
Hair ###:-)
A Chorus Line ,/,/,/,/,/,/,/,/
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
(concertino) [classical - rock - jazz - new age - musicals - country]
(da capo) Sunset, Sunrise
(a capella) Long walks
(con amore) Real people
(misterioso) Midnight mysteries to discover
(poco a poco crescendo) Affection of a good woman
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Actually I just pay attention to what's happening now. It's really the only thing going on. And You are clearly the most important person in my life right now.

Oh, and the subject of this article ===>
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Right now, I'm retired and living alone in a very nice place in southwest Phoenix...the truth is I have plenty of free time to go with you somewhere (movie? museum? hike? dance?) ...on most evenings I am probably doing laps in our heated pool or soaking in our jacuzzi. Just come over here without thinking too much about it -- we'll go somewhere and there will be nothing to regret.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm willing to admit my most private things with you. Think of me as a virtual pinata (and feel free to beat me with verbal sticks), but you won't be disappointed with the candy. Be attracted, be repelled, be flummoxed, be frightened, be drawn like a moth to flame - doesn't matter to me, but DO just be YOU. I'm real, and I want someone real.
You should message me if
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You want to discover what it's like to be with someone who takes the time and pleasure to understand what you want, whatever it is, and try to give it to you

You like my hat or want to wear it

You live in/near Tulsa and want to meet me anywhere, for whatever reason

It will happen if you call me 623-313-5532