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55 M Albuquerque, NM

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:21pm
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from Ph.D program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Thoughtful, adventurous, active and engaged, a bit strong willed but very playful and supportive.
What I’m doing with my life
Living simply and with intention. Doing work that I enjoy and that I think it helps to make the world a slightly better place. Looking for new ways to expand my world -- new ideas, people, things to do. I love doing almost anything outdoors. Lots of travel these days -- India, Spain, Paris & London,Dominican Republic, Nepal, new England ...
I’m really good at
Figuring things out and getting stuff done. Traveling with a light pack. Sitting very very still. Making myself laugh. Making things last.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Recently: Death of Vishnu; Super Sad True Love Story; Jeff in Venice Death in Varanasi; Lost Books of the Odyssey; 2666; David Foster Wallace. Mark Twain; William Faulkner. Favorite movies: Fitzcarraldo, The Graduate, Eternal Sunshine, Repo Man, Pulp Fiction; film noir. Music: Radiohead, Fela Kuti, Miles Davis, Muddy Waters, The Beatles; Fleet Foxes, Arctic Monkeys, Yeah Yeah Yeahs. I don't watch tv except what I can get on online (which is quite a bit). I love Indian food, fresh seafood (when I get to an ocean). For better or worst, blue corn chips and salsa is a staple of my diet. Yes, chocolate too.
The six things I could never do without
Coffee, engaging conversation, physical activity and being outside, meditation, emotional connection. Purpose.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Whether fleeting moments of calm and self-acceptance count as enlightenment. How to more effectively deliver social services to remote, isolated rural areas in New Mexico. Why do the neighbors let their chihuahuas run in the street. What's up with the Red Sox. Faster and safer routes to bike home at night. Is there is a bottom to the decline of American politics? Where to go on my next hike or my next trip. If my parents are okay. What movies I could add to Netflix.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with friends for drinks; out for dinner; watching a movie; at a baseball game. Ideally spending it with someone special to me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If it is truly private, I wouldn't put it on the internet.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 42–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You enjoy ideas and conversation; are liberal-minded; like to be physically active; will teach me new things.