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zephyrfeather

48 / M / Straight / Single

Porter Ranch, California

His Details

Last Online
Today – 1:02pm
Ethnicity
Native American, Hispanic / Latin
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Education
Two-year college
Job
Other
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
What? I gotta talk about myself here? Not really into that but if it's necessary.....here it goes. Just a guy at my age looking for someone to really get to know and get to know me. Someone to talk to in a long conversation or short one but to just hang out together. To do things with. No pressure of dating per say but to just either support each other in their own lives or be there for them in a friendly way. Looking for one who is calm, cool and collected in tough situations. One who thinks ahead in actions and thought process yet is able to just let go and trust their instincts and let loose like a wild animal. I love music, live shows, motorcycle riding, movies, laying around and relaxing, embracing life and all it's wonder before I end this mortal realm. Lover or Fighter? I am a fighter for love. As one gets older, the importance of things change and it comes down to just plain good company. A circle of friends or those who will accept another unconditionally. I truely love to get out and do things as well as stay in bed and watch a good movie. To be continued.....
What I’m doing with my life
For now.....starting over. I recently moved on my own with my cat and am trying to start a brand new life for myself. That is why I signed up and am trying something totally new and out of my norm. I intend to be focusing on finding someone though. Toys and money and things like that are nice but humanity and being empathetic and sympathetic to others is far more important. Loving and caring and having a good moral outlook is key. Looking for trust or depenability for my future.
I’m really good at
Change-trusting my instincts. Letting go of those who are negative, rude, and just don't have a good heart. Good at problem solving......have been in most jobs....the backbone and glue.....to see the big picture and find where I can fit in to fix or make better. I'm really good at (and I mean this in an honest non sexual way) giving massages. And last but not least....I am good at seeing and feeling what others see and feel. Very empathetic and sympathetic.
The first things people usually notice about me
My front side as I walk towards them. What a weird question? I've heard (and trying to be humble here) Tall, Dark and Handsome but to each their own. My smile and hair. My personable approach to others. Eye contact. Ok, I will add to this. My confidence.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Too much to answwer here.....but a movie that comes to mind is "You Can't Take It With You" an old black and white movie about the freedom of being yourself no matter what. Musically...anything but hard core rap. Have been to many many concerts after living near the Hollywood area for 35 years you tend to be around the world of entertainment. Food....Mexican.....yeah.......Books...well..."To Kill a Mockingbird" comes to mind but there was one when I was a kid I dug...."Black Like Me". Other than that...I can really go on but it would be nice to talk to someone about them rather than a blank page here. Adding to this......have seen about 1,000 concerts so far. Anyone from Ray Charles (may he rest in peace) to Norah Jones to AC/DC to Neil Diamond and so on. You name it, I've probably seen them. Show....Mama Mia....Grease....Hair.....The Vagina Monologues..... to be continued
The six things I could never do without
Air. Food. A roof. My cat. Work. Adding to this.....companionship.
On a typical Friday night I am
At this point.....nothing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
What a question. The MOST private thing I want to admit?? How silly. Come on. But to at least humor you all.....I love to cuddle. Looking at the eyes of the person I am talking to. Smiles. Sex. Being human. A confession here....I would not mind a healthy, curvy woman who is comfortable in her own skin. Does not matter of race or status. Just be you as you would want me to be me.
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 35–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
Please don't be into games. Life is too short for that and I have been there done that. Looking for a stable person to talk with, be with.....and do things with. No drama. No drugs. Open minded. Fearless. Sense of humor a must. No medications or anger issues. Must enjoy long, deep conversations once in awhile.