I spend a lot of time making websites these days, both because it's my new career and because it's a fantastic platform to be, well, enthusiastically nerdy and creative. I get to fixate on detailed code puzzles and use that to make beautiful/weird/funny/unexpected things. It's so frickin' cool, I can't even believe it.
Also I, like, really like watching cats on the internet. It's the very core my soul.
Abrupt transition! I totally dig the femme types, historically with pretty different personalities and presentation. Integrity and the capacity for joy tend to be the common threads.
I'm open to relations and relationships looking a lot of different ways: I've been happy with poly and monogs, kink and not, serious and NSA. It's the being able to talk about it with self-awareness and skill that is vital to me.