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31 M Cambridge, MA

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  • Ages 20–35
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My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:42am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I've been pretty aptly described as jack of all trades, master of none....makes careering a little tough, but if the conversation turns to music, film, theatre, art or politics, I feel like I can generally hold up my end. Failing that, I've got a damn convincing nod and smile.

Talking with someone who has an expertise, talent or consuming passion for their hobbies or career is a huge turn-on...but I'm just about as happy to trade barbs and banter about nothing at all...

I'm pretty good at creating, curating and curing awkward situations and pauses.

I'm very happily married and I anticipate remaining that way until the day I die or March 10th, 2019...whichever comes first. Not looking for anything to disrupt or supersede that; just browsing for folks with similar interests who might be up for wandering around, grabbing drinks, chattering, catching an occasional show, random adventuring, etc...all sorts of strictly-platonic good times.

As I've gotten older, I've simply found myself with fewer and fewer organic opportunities to meet new people...hence, internet.

And yes, my better-half is well aware that I've got an OkCupid account. It was actually her idea.
What I’m doing with my life
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I just purchased a condo in Cambridge with my fiancee and brother. It's a little cramped but I'm happy to no longer have a rotating cast of ancillary characters moving in and out.

I was getting paid to purchase CDs, LPs, DVDs and the like for a small independent retailer. It was a pretty enjoyable-ish gig with lots of goofy perks, but I recently elected to move on...without necessarily having something else lined up...and it wasn't actually an impulsive decision.

Currently, I'm doing some pretty un-sexy administrative work for a University located in Cambridge. Grad study is probably (hopefully) just over the horizon.

I'm torn between getting back into radio (with the aim of producing content for public radio) or angling myself into live-music booking (with the aim of clinging to my youth).

I was learning how to fly things for a while...I'd like to get back to that.

I'm mulling over the next step...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Scratching on the 8.

Y'know those latch-hooking kits for children that you find in the discount aisle of the crafts store? Those.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have a scar under my left eye that promises an interesting backstory (but completely fails to deliver).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music's pretty much where it begins and ends. I'm partial to tangible, physical things, so the bedroom has been pretty much stuffed to the hilt with CDs, LPs and the like for years. I've been slowly selling off my collection on Amazon and eBay but I'll always cling desperately to LPs from Mission of Burma, the Verlaines, the Jam and the Replacements...

There's plenty of new stuff out there that I adore but if I'm being honest, I spend most of my time digging through catalogs. That being said, the records from the last couple of years that I've been spinning the most:

David Comes to Life - Fucked Up
Bang Goes the Knighthood - The Divine Comedy
Epic - Sharon Van Etten
Twins - Ty Segall
Sweet Heart Sweet Light - Spiritualized

recent reads:
Private Lives - Noel Coward
Travels in Siberia - Ian Frazier
Sea of Poppies - Amitav Ghosh
always there:
Rosencrantz & Guildenstern Are Dead - Tom Stoppard
Catch 22 - Joseph Heller
The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier & Clay - Michael Chabon

recent viewing:
always there:
Raising Arizona
Annie Hall
Repo Man

I'll admit that I watch TV. Dr. Who, Arrested Development, Mr. Show, Father Ted, Breaking Bad, the Wire, early Simpsons, Star Trek TNG and any Sherlock Holmes series that stars Jeremy Brett.

Podcasts are pretty swell, too...'Stuff You Missed in History Class', 'How Did This Get Made?' and 'WTF' sort of soundtrack my workday.

I recently went pescetarian after nine years spent as vegetarian, so right now I'm really digging crustaceans. I also make a badass carrot soup and bruised kale salad.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- black coffee
- dry socks
- a radio
- lush and green things
- q-tips
- oxygen
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
As a new homeowner, I spend an embarrassing amount of time thinking about my lawn. Primarily about how it's less of a lawn and more just a collection of weeds...and what can be done about that...right this very moment.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm generally interested in getting out of the house and finding myself in good company...failing that, I've got a Netflix account and a turntable.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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The first girl that I ever kissed called the date short about five minutes after it happened. Shortly thereafter, she explained that I had, "the sex appeal of a three-legged dog standing in the rain. At first it seems sort of cute and kind of pathetic and, well, you want to let it in for a little while...but then you realize that it's missing a limb and out in the rain for a reason".

While I've remained good friends with most of my exes, none of them have ever disputed this assessment.
You should message me if
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You want help propping up the wall at a show on a Tuesday night.

You've got a really great grift figured out and need a straight-man.

You want a (totally platonic) partner in other crimes...

You sort of miss getting to know new people, too.