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40 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 29–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:49pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Used up
Trying to quit
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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*it has been a while, and this needs serious updating. Please stand by. (Changes denoted by * until i get less lazy and actually update for realsies.)

Starting to think i need something more organic for my love life.

Despite my pictures, i DO smile sometimes.

I hate people who litter. It really makes no sense to me when there is a garbage can on every corner. Subcategory of littering that i hate more? People who spit their gum out on the sidewalk and create those black leopard spots all over the city.

I also don't like old-timey looking phones with push buttons wedged into the rotary space. It's a design disaster and it needs to stop.

I suspect that dentists chip away and do other things inside our mouths so that we have to come back. I can't prove it, but i don't spend too much time worrying about it. I don't mind the dentist.

I recently set my toaster on fire. I was not making toast.

I am adding, you to my cart, and isn't that enough?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.

Started running seriously in the past year or so. Just crossed the 10-mile mark on my way toward 2011 marathon goal. Come train with me! (Or at least help me find a way to get up for runs in the morning.)*

(*obviously it is no longer 2011. I have run two marathons since writing this. I REALLY need to update this thing.)

Also... just got a big boy camera and hoping to make a go at that. I'm doing one of those 365 projects (started very recently) to keep me shooting and learning this year. Take a look if you're into that sort of thing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Many things. I could use someone to remind me though.

I am a bit of a tech geek. I am usually the person people call for help fixing their computer and/or gadget.

I am WAY too informed. Half of that is related to my job and the other half is because of my naturally curious nature. My friends often try to "scoop" me on news items, about pretty much anything, but it is rare that they can. I feel a little bad about that sometimes.*

(*some of this is altered due to circumstances. I don't actually feel that bad though.)

I am probably good at other things, but how long should i go on and on about that?
The first things people usually notice about me
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That's really more a question about you then about me, no?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A lot of music. Can't hold a note, but i sure do like listening! I still buy CDs. I need the physical media, and even though i burn everything into my iTunes and then stream it across my wireless network, i need to look at my CDs. I considered years ago getting into vinyl, but i figured that would just segment my collection. I do still have all my old cassette tapes though.

I stopped reading for a while because i moved into the city and don't really commute on the train as much (i walk to work.) Plus, i read the newspaper for a living. But, since getting a kindle as a gift, i am reading again. Usually while doing laundry. I like forced relaxation in New York. I kinda miss the train.

I like movies, but i don't get the whole 3D craze. I hope it goes away soon.

I eat.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I am working on new priorities.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future. And the past. I should spend more time thinking about the present.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It's mood dependent.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Sometimes i think the friend in your photo is hotter than you are.
You should message me if
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If you are finally looking for someone, but may not really know what that means.

You can help me figure out how to get past this two, three date hump and move on to the middle. The middle is good right?

Also, if you don't spit your gum out on the sidewalk.