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  • Ages 29-44
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Last online
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5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Used up
Agnosticism but it’s not important
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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*it has been a while, and this needs serious updating. Please stand by. (Changes denoted by * until i get less lazy and actually update for realsies.)

Despite my pictures, i DO smile sometimes.

I hate people who litter. It really makes no sense to me when there is a garbage can on every corner. Subcategory of littering that i hate more? People who spit their gum out on the sidewalk and create those black leopard spots all over the city.

I also don't like old-timey looking phones with push buttons wedged into the rotary space. It's a design disaster and it needs to stop.

I suspect that dentists chip away and do other things inside our mouths so that we have to come back. I can't prove it, but i don't spend too much time worrying about it. I don't mind the dentist.

I recently set my toaster on fire. I was not making toast.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Contemplating a transition to a life of leisure.

Started running seriously in the past year or so. Just crossed the 10-mile mark on my way toward 2011 marathon goal. Come train with me! (Or at least help me find a way to get up for runs in the morning.)*

(*obviously it is no longer 2011. I have run two marathons since writing this. planning more. I REALLY need to update this thing.)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Many things. I could use someone to remind me though.

I am a bit of a tech geek. I am usually the person people call for help fixing their computer and/or gadget.

I am WAY too informed. Half of that is related to my job and the other half is because of my naturally curious nature (and a bit of a Mr. Know-it-All). My friends often try to "scoop" me on news items, about pretty much anything, but it is rare that they can. I feel a little bad about that sometimes.*

(*some of this is altered due to circumstances. I don't actually feel that bad though.)

I am probably good at other things, but how long should i go on and on about that?
The first things people usually notice about me
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That's really more a question about you then about me, no?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A lot of music. Can't hold a note, but i sure do like listening! I still buy CDs. I need the physical media, and even though i burn everything into my iTunes and then stream it across my wireless network, i need to look at my CDs. I considered years ago getting into vinyl, but i figured that would just segment my collection. I do still have all my old cassette tapes though.

I stopped reading for a while because i moved into the city and don't really commute on the train as much (i walk to work.) Plus, i read the newspaper for a living. But, since getting a kindle as a gift, i am reading again. Usually while doing laundry. I like forced relaxation in New York. I kinda miss the train.

I like movies, but i don't get the whole 3D craze. I hope it goes away soon.

I eat.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I am working on new priorities. *

*That said, i recently put a bunch of my stuff in storage (long story) and it is amazing how much of your stuff you never think about, let alone need, when it is locked away.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
*i'll get back to you.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It's mood dependent.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Sometimes i think the friend in your photo is hotter than you are.
You should message me if
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Because you like me? You're bored?
Also, if you don't spit your gum out on the sidewalk.