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zerismomachismo

38 Alameda, CA Man

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  • Ages 27–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Thin
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Education
Job
Income
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Okay), Swedish (Okay)
My self-summary
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everybody wants the same thing. and it is so hard to find.

tend to consume music by listening to a rotating assortment of 2 - 4 tracks on repeat, until i burn out on it, with new additions every week or so.

born in and spent early childhood in sweden.
grew up in the woods in WA state.

as a result, do not feel at home in either country and am most comfortable in the shade.

came of age and have spent most of my adulthood so far, in seattle.

and now, work brings me here. to lovely sun bleached and seasonless CA.

INT*
What I’m doing with my life
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in my free-time:

making pictures.. reductive urban landscape photography consumes a fair amount of my attention. here are some concepts i am working on in their current state:

http://nothingnowhereendless.com/

cooking healthy, colorful, balanced and sometimes tasty food.

running miles every day.

various manner of computer graphics oriented nerdery.

in my paid-time :

work as a drafter for a company that designs and fabricates furniture for retail and museum environments. mostly my job consists of figuring out how design elements are to be constructed by means of virtually prototyping an autocad based 3D model, from which construction drawings are derived for fabrication. kind of like lego instructions but with more annotation and less color.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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selectively consuming:

artists
oliver boberg
uta barth
rinko kawauchi
nicholas cope
patrik Lindell
josef shulz
erik undehn
seth clark
lauren marsolier

movies
café de Flore
like someone in love
melancholia
drive
enter the void
somewhere
5cm per second

music
grimes
ladytron
radiohead
port-royal
blue sky black death
rachel's
decemberists
national
damien rice
pj harvey

books
maria semple
gary shteyngart
haruki murakami
ray loriga
miranda july
michel houellebecq
the wallace of course.

food
black licorice
dark chocolate.
high vegetable to meat ratio.
properly frothed lattes . 2 shots. 8 oz.
smaller rounder apples with thin skin.
red. dry. spice. black currants, oak.
hate cheese (really).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
everybody here has pictures of themselves on grassy hilltops by the ocean. i can't help but think it would be nice to see those grassy green hilltops.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
here's what i'd like to be doing:

grab a nice cup of coffee. wander familiar blocks in search of the new. check out a used book store on the way home. make some spaghetti tossed with fresh tomatoes, arugula and seared garlic in good olive oil with salt and fresh ground pepper. eat it while watching a movie where the photography and sound design tell more story than the words. read in bed.

with you.
You should message me if
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"wow. you made it this far." or maybe you didn't, considering that this often comes as a surprise when referenced in conversation, despite this text:

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i am "married" but separated and have been for a couple of years now. my "wife" lives hundreds of miles away from me. we are not personally involved with each other and are not going to get back together. waiting for the common-law divorce (does that happen?) .. we have one child whom we are both committed to and cooperatively involved in raising. i maintain a close relationship with my daughter, but because this is where i found work, visiting her requires an airplane ride and so i am only able to see her once a month for an extended weekend.

none of the above precludes me from sharing my self with somebody i feel i can get along and find lasting connection, with. i am not looking for a second mom for my kid. just somebody i share mutual attraction toward, to move through this world on the same page with. push each other. learn from each other.
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so that said, message me if:

you seek beauty.