I'm an auto didact because I never learned anything in school that I couldn't get from the library. I've read a lot of books on a lot of subjects so I may or may not be able to chat with you about your profession/interests/philosophy but even if I don't know what I'm talking about I'll try to make it interesting.
A pretty (maybe the most) important part of all of this is that I have a boyfriend (allofthethings_ in case you're wondering). We seriously dig each other but we also like to see other people; in fact it makes everything a whole lot better for us. I'm interested in meeting people who want to operate outside of the norm with me. If that means we're just friends who talk about gender politics and dogs or we're friends who sometimes get naked and roll around together ( and talk about gender politics and dogs) I'll be happy either way.
I've seen this a lot but seriously, what's wrong with 'Queer' OkCupid? You've offered us a lot of other orientation options, this one seems pretty straight forward.