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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25-40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 4:45am
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
Dropped out of Two-year college
Has dogs
My self-summary
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Baker, musician, cocktail nerd, auto didact, lover and wrangler of dogs, masc of center queer lady looking for people to spend time with.

I have a boyfriend (allofthethings_ in case you're wondering). We have a home in red hook full of weird food experiments, instruments and an adorable dog named cheddar.

We are not a package deal but if you're interested in hanging out with an interesting couple of weirdos let me know. I'm also into group play as a solo act if any interested couples feel like saying hi.
What I’m doing with my life
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On a hiatus from animal rescue career to sling coffee and cocktails in Red Hook.

Trying to plan fundraisers for animal rescue, any suggestions?

Riding my bike to DIY shows, cocktail geekery, learning about (and actually) working with metal, reading too many books at any given time and combining them in weird dreams at night, practicing guitar and never playing in front of anyone, fermenting foods and figuring out how to do it better.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Working with animals.

Making a fool of myself (e.g. singing songs to inanimate objects and doing jigs while working).

Stress reading. Seriously, when I'm stressed I'll go through a book a day.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Good lord, who knows?
If I had to guess, and depending on the time of year, tattoos, freckles or the fact that I started checking out their dog way before I noticed them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Third Plate, 100 years of solitude, The Ethical Slut, The Sandman series, Snow Crash, Where the Sidewalk Ends, Good Omens, any Oliver Sacks, Physics of the Impossible, The Amazing Adventures of Cavalier and Klay, Sherry, Kraken, Lolita, Dune, Hero With A Thousand Faces, Blood Meridian, Windup Bird Chronicles, Bone, any books on folklore or mythology and I read books on geology for fun, don't judge, geology is awesome.

Tom Waits, Johnny Cash, Neutral Milk Hotel, Bob Dylan, Lou Reed, Thee Oh Sees, Velvet Underground, FIDLR, Shannon and the Clams, Screaming Females, Nobunny, The Cramps, Dave Von Ronk, Townes Van Zandt, Blind Willi Johnson, Sam Cooke, Sarah Vaughn, Bessie Smith, Billie Holliday, Gillian Welch, Vaughan Williams, Debussy, Shostakovich, Bach, Ravel.

I terribly miss the mexican food back home.
I'm big on baking but don't enjoy eating baked goods.
I much prefer honeydew to cantaloupe.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music (playing it, not just listening), movement (sex, biking, dancing, etc)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.

Body mods.

Whether or not the fact that I'm unwilling to give up meat despite my work with animals is morally reprehensible.

The gender binary, kink, desire vs reality, polyamory/consensual nonmonogamy/open relationships, intersectional feminism, cocktails, dogs.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm just as likely to be getting stoned with my man watching a good flick as I am to be going to whatever raucous show seems appealing that week.

Plus weekends are for suckers.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am fairly convinced that this profile is not in any way a good representation of who I am.
You should message me if
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Want to chat about Joseph Campbell.

Want to chat while baking a pie and/or drinking some whiskey.

Want to geek out about geeky shit. Listening to people discuss things they are passionate about makes me happy.

'I like aggressive women with a nerdy vibe.' There's a lot of truth in that....