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27 F Brooklyn, NY

My Details

Last Online
Jul 24
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Dropped out of two-year college
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
I work with dogs, play music, bake and I'm from Northern California.

I'm an auto didact because I never learned anything in school that I couldn't get from the library. I've read a lot of books on a lot of subjects so I may or may not be able to chat with you about your profession/interests/philosophy but even if I don't know what I'm talking about I'll try to make it interesting.

A pretty (maybe the most) important part of all of this is that I have a boyfriend (allofthethings_ in case you're wondering). We seriously dig each other but we also like to see other people, in fact it makes everything a whole lot better for us. I'm interested in meeting people who want to operate outside of the norm with me. If that means were just friends who talk about gender politics and dogs or we're friends who sometimes get naked and roll around together ( and talk about gender politics and dogs) I'll be happy either way.

I've seen this a lot but seriously, what's wrong with 'Queer' OkCupid? You've offered us a lot of other orientation options, this one seems pretty straight forward.
What I’m doing with my life
I manage a dog daycare/rescue facility. I plan on working with animals for the rest of my life so I guess things are working out so far.

Trying to plan fundraisers for my rescue, any suggestions?

I go between phases of reading too much and never leaving my apartment and not being able to be there for more than 10 minutes at a time. I have a hard time finding a good balance between the two.
I’m really good at
Working with animals.

Making a fool of myself (e.g. singing songs to inanimate objects and doing jigs while working).

Stress reading. Seriously, when I'm stressed I'll go through a book a day.
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't know why but I get stopped to give directions all the time. Maybe I look like I know where I'm going.

I should probably change this as ever since I got an undercut people have stopped asking me for directions so....maybe undercut?

UPDATE: People have started asking me for directions again, a little uncertain as to what that means but this has turned in to a bit of a social experiment, perhaps more updates to come.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
100 years of solitude, The Sandman series, Snow Crash, Where the Sidewalk Ends, Good Omens, Physics of the Impossible, Ender's Game, The Amazing Adventures of Cavalier and Klay, Kraken, Lolita, Dune, Hero With A Thousand Faces, Blood Meridian, Windup Bird Chronicles, Bone, any books on folklore or mythology and I read books on geology for fun, don't judge, geology is awesome.

Tom Waits, Johnny Cash, Bjork, Neutral Milk Hotel, Bob Dylan, Lou Reed, Thee Oh Sees, Velvet Underground, Dave Von Ronk, Townes Van Zandt, Blind Willi Johnson, Sam Cooke, Sarah Vaughn, Billie Holliday, Gillian Welch, Vaughan Williams, Debussy, Shostakovich, Bach, Ravel.

I terribly miss the mexican food back home.
I'm big on baking but don't enjoy eating baked goods.
I much prefer honeydew to cantaloupe.
The six things I could never do without
Music (playing it, not just listening)
Movement (dancing, sex, biking, etc)
I spend a lot of time thinking about

How best to avoid freezing in the winter/melting in the summer.

Whether or not the fact that I'm unwilling to give up meat despite my work with animals is morally reprehensible.

Polyamory/consensual nonmonogamy/open relationships and why it is that I have to keep explaining my relationships to my friends.

When can I possibly afford my next tattoo.
On a typical Friday night I am
Weekends are for suckers, especially if you live in Williamsburg.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am fairly convinced that this profile is not in any way a good representation of who I am.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
If you honestly have something interesting to say.

Want to chat about Joseph Campbell.

Want to chat while baking a pie and/or drinking some whiskey.

You want to take me on an adventure.

'I like aggressive women with a nerdy vibe.' There's a lot of truth in that....