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zeusifer

39 M Seattle, WA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

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Today – 12:41pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Education
Job
Technology
Income
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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By day, I work with computer software, but please feel free to toss all those stereotypical computer nerd tropes out the window. I’m motivated by beauty, and I do my best to cultivate it as much as possible. Art photography and portraiture are passions of mine, and I absolutely love music – both listening to and making. I appreciate the craftsmanship in the cut of a good dress and the line of a classic high heel. A glass of red wine speaks volumes.

I’m an explorer – I like to delve into ideas and examine the world around me. Whether it’s hiking through the wilderness, people-watching (and dancing the night away) in clubs, or going out on a low-light late night photo excursion, I keep my eyes open and am always trying to see my environment in a new way.

I'm happily married, and ethically non-monogamous. Perhaps the best term is "monogamish." (Thanks for that one, Dan Savage.) In other words, I'm still open to romantic adventures and fun times with the right persons. Also, I have a 7-year-old son who rocks my world. I’m at a really great place in my life – and it shows.
I’m really good at
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All of the photos in my profile are self-portraits; as I said, I really enjoy photography and I’ve worked to hone my craft. I love taking portraits (hint hint).

I love music. I sing, play keyboards and bass, and have just entered into a very mutually fulfilling affair with a cherry red G&L Legacy Deluxe.

Finding light in the dark corners is something I enjoy very much.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably my hair. It’s almost always some shade of very unnatural red. My eyes, too; while not unnaturally red, they are very striking.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: Film noir is a true love of mine – the dramatic lighting, the well-dressed femme fatales, the gritty, nuanced atmosphere… what’s not to love? This includes everything from the classics (Maltese Falcon and Double Indemnity) to neo-noir (Blade Runner). My favorite director is Alfred Hitchcock, but I’m also a huge fan of Stanley Kubrick and David Lynch. Really, though, it’s not always all that dark; I enjoy all kinds of films!

TV: I don’t watch a lot of TV, but The Daily Show, Colbert Report, and Real Time With Bill Maher are in heavy rotation. As with film, my tastes veer towards the atmospheric and dramatic – X-Files, West Wing, Twin Peaks, and Mad Men.

Radio: Over the last few years I've really gotten into some NPR shows like This American Life and Radiolab.

I love all kinds of music--yes, even the occasional country and hip-hop--though admittedly the majority of my music collection is some form of rock or pop. I enjoy classic rock, grew up on 80s music, and have a large place in my heart (and ears) for new wave and synthpop. Most recently, my favorite is the new Daft Punk album, but I have a pretty decent crush on M83, Phoenix, Goldfrapp, Lady Gaga, and heck, I even like the new NIN song. But my all-time favorite artist - now and forever - is David Bowie!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
No Friday night is typical, but when I’m not spending a night in with my family, I can sometimes be found out on the town - dancing, spending time with friends, taking photos, and enjoying the night air.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I own more than a few pairs of high-heeled shoes. And I know how to use them!
You should message me if
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You never quite got over your adolescent feelings of being a freak and a weirdo. Instead, you came to embrace those feelings, laugh about them, and celebrate them.

You have a not-so-secret crush on Andrej Pejic.

You enjoy a strong cocktail and fabulous conversation.

... Or you think I seem interesting.