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29 Yukon, OK Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–31
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:57pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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I'm in my rookie schoolyear professing at a small community college. There's a lot of work to do to before I feel like I've settled in, but I am excited to be here. Originally from the distant land of Indiana. I just can't wait to experience my firstsecond Oklahoma tornado.

I have a lazy but super affectionate tabby cat named Tabby (I'm not creative when it comes to names). Though I'm considering changing the name to Tubby, she could use a diet.

I have been independent to a fault, but working on changing that. I finally feel like I am in a great spot in life, but only due to the support of so many great people. So I am looking for someone with a similar outlook, who sees a relationship (of any kind) as an opportunity to grow and to help others grow.

According to OKCupid, Oklahoma is my 3rd worst state for matches. Good thing I'm always up for a challenge!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am getting into the groove of teaching, especially all the behind the scenes aspects (meetings, prep, etc).

Not much time for much else currently, just settling in to the Yukon area.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I feel like it would be more interesting to list things you are terrible at. I can not for the life of me park in a straight line, despite my best efforts. I have never been able to snap my fingers or whistle a tune which I fear is a pretty huge character flaw.

I guess I'm good at some things though:

Empathizing with other people. I enjoy finding out how people tick, and being able to put yourself in another's shoes removes a lot of unnecessary stress.

Playing the saxophone. I was in the marching band in high school! I'm sure you're jealous.

Logic puzzles (sudoku for example). It's fun coming up with new ways of solving them. For that matter, any sort of puzzle that requires you to figure out your own rules.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Apparently I smile a lot without realizing it. My mind can wander and i amuse myself easily.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music: Pretty much anything with a powerful melody, from classical to rock to electronic. Some favorites: Muse, Queens of the Stone Age, Dragonforce, Avenged Sevenfold, Ellie Goulding.

Books: For fiction, I prefer sci-fi/fantasy, for example Ender's Game, A Song of Ice and Fire series, Prince of Nothing series, Kingkiller Chronicle series, Anathem. I read a lot on nonfiction as well, from biographies to psychology; anything that looks interesting. I am always open to suggestions for interesting things to put on my reading list.

Movies: I am easily entertained; I can find even terrible movies enjoyable.

TV shows: Game of Thrones, House of Cards, the Daily Show, Archer, Futurama, Scrubs, The League, Always Sunny

Food: I'll eat almost anything that doesn't have mushrooms, but I like to try things that are reasonably spicy if given the choice.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) A sense of humor
2) Dark chocolate m&m's
3) Something to achieve
4) Shoe inserts for my flat feet
5) Air conditioning
6) A decent internet connection
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Big idealistic impossible things, like how to fix everything wrong in the world, or what I'm having for lunch tomorrow.

On a serious note, I think a lot about how to improve the state of education. I'm a huge fan of The Khan Academy, and hope to make a difference in the system myself.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With friends in some fashion, or just relaxing at home. I'm an introvert, don't really enjoy going to bars or other places with a lot of people, I'd rather unwind on my own or with a few people I know.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Even though I know they are designed to appeal to the lowest denominator, I will sing along in the car to a catchy pop tune.
You should message me if
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You have read through all this and would like to chat.

You have a good sense of humor and are able to not take life so seriously when necessary.