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zjapa

28 M Richmond, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:45am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Non-monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English, Sign Language (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm an exceptionally happy, married man, and a new father! We welcomed our first child on July 4th, and every day has been a new learning experience. I have infinitely more respect for every parent out there..
I've been with my wife sidekickempress for over 8(!!) years, and we've been through a lot in that time. In 2010 we decided to try polyamory, since it fits with our philosophies of enjoying life and people. We don't want to deny ourselves experiences, and the opportunity for fulfilling relationships with other people. We've both dated outside of our marriage, and it's been pretty enlightening. It's taught us a lot about ourselves and our relationship. As a bonus, we've gotten to meet some excellent people! We've always talked about one day living in a community of close friends, so polyamory fits well with that idea as well. Why not live with friends and people with whom you have intimate relationships? We can't think of a good enough reason not to, either. So, yeah. We're working on that. We live with my wife's boyfriend DRWise in the San Francisco bay area. It is quite nice to have a roommate and a built-in network.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Right now I'm working for an automotive dealership. I'm a car salesman. *Now* you trust me, right? :P I'm always learning, and sales is a great fit for my personality. I look at it as the most interesting game I've ever played - trying to match someone with a car that works best for them taking into account an almost infinite number of variables... I find it enjoyable, and I'm good at it, so it works out pretty well!

I like almost anything having to do with the outdoors. I was in a frisbee league, I really want to play soccer again, I hike or go trail-running every week if I can, and I'm trying to make time for yoga and swimming! I'm also looking for someone to run with. I like to rock climb when I get the chance, ideally outdoors. Know any good spots?

I met my wife in an acting class, and we've worked on several theatre projects together and individually since then. I am exclusively an actor, while she does acting and directing. We are hoping to start an independent theatre company that is accessible physically and in attitude to people with disabilities.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh, listening, hugging (I'm told), imitating people, being a smartass.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The fact that I'm a goofball, who is pretty outgoing, almost always smiling, and usually walking a dog - we adopted a rescue named Banshee. Oddly, despite her name, she is almost *always* silent...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Farenheit 451, Animal Farm, The Science of Fear, Switching Time, every now and then a gratuitous Tom Clancy novel.

Pulp Fiction, Get Shorty, Snatch, Dazed and Confused, Fight Club, Dark Knight (the whole trilogy, really), Out Cold, That Thing You Do!, Legends of the Fall, Super Troopers, The King's Speech... I could literally fill pages with movies I like. I can also quote most of them unnaturally well.

I don't have cable, but Netflix comes through with White Collar, Dexter, and Face Off ( I usually hate elimination shows, but that one is just incredibly cool ).

Music is pretty eclectic - anything from AC/DC, White Stripes, OK Go, The Beatles, Bullets and Octane, lately the Black Keys and Jack White's new solo stuff... I stick mostly to rock, but I can listen to almost anything.

Food is something I have been exploring more recently. I enjoy trying new things and I'm always interested in finding a new favorite spot. I could eat indian food three meals a day and be perfectly happy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My wife!
some kind of vehicle - just got a new MINI Cooper Clubman (stick-shift, of course), but I make it a point to ride my bicycle as part of my commute every day. Note: auto-correct thinks 'commute' should be 'conjure'.
A way to keep in touch with friends- I tend to be the one that randomly calls people out of the blue to catch up
a job - I would go crazy without something to keep me focused
open space - there is SO MUCH to do in the bay area. I will never be able to complete it all...
ethnic food. and american food. food in general. I like it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the human mind - I was a psych major, and one of the things that I enjoy most about acting is trying to figure out other peoples' minds. I'm not always very good at it, but I find it fascinating

I also fantasize about going to sleep at 9pm and getting 10 hours of sleep. It never happens though. I have much more important things to do than go to sleep at 9, but it's still fun to think about.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Catching up on emails for work, walking the dog, visiting people, or hanging out at home on most occasions. During the summer months, i try to make it to Off The Grid at Fort Mason every Friday that i get the chance because FOODS TRUCKS. I work weekends, so my nights for going out are actually Tuesday and Wednesday at the moment. That usually just entails going on a hike with the dog and maybe friends during the day, and having a whiskey at home that night. Enthralling, yes?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have never eaten brussel sprouts
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Drop me a line if you have questions about polyamory - it seems to be a pretty good ice breaker. That, and it's a lot of fun to trade stories about how other poly folks ended up in that style of relationship.

Also, if you know the bay area better than me (so, basically everyone), TELL ME ALL OF THE COOL THINGS THAT I NEED TO GO DO/SEE/CONSUME/POKE-WITH-STICKS.

Or, you know, if you want to go rock climbing. Or running. Or just talk over coffee (hot chocolate for me!) or over the internet(s). I try to get back to people in a reasonable amount of time, but as my life is generally chaotic, sometimes it takes a few days.

Additionally, if we're a high percentage match, we should be friends. Seriously.