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33 Philadelphia, PA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Apr 16
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body type
Other, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi, I am a goth punk gamer geek currently residing in the great city of Philadelphia. I am into BDSM and relationship anarchy, a kind of ethical non-monogamy. I am interested in meeting compelling people who do cool things. I identify as queer and am a switch (yup, I'm greedy. why choose one when you can choose all) I enjoy people of all shapes, sizes, colors, and flavors. Especially those who who identify as non-conformists or violate gender norms.

I am queer, anarcha-feminist, and nerdy. If you are not into kink, we are not going to work. If you are a Republican, ditto. If you think I'm cis, don't even try me.

I currently have a life partner, a comrade, and a queer platonic zucchini.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
If I look really familiar, but you can't figure out why, it's because I worked at Trader Joe's for over five years. I've since moved on to a big kid job at a women's agency serving survivors of domestic violence and substance abuse. I am also currently a student at Temple University Women's Studies department.
I like to spend my free time chilling with my friends discussing philosophy, watching Dr. Who, and listening to music. I live in the best neighborhood in Philly: West Philly. If you want to discuss politics and drink tea, watch Archer or Venture Bros., see an art movie at the Ritz, eat an olde timey sundae at Franklin Fountain, or celebrate 420 and makeout to Depeche Mode drop me a line here or at
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Keeping cool under pressure,
spontaneous cooking,
restraining angry cats
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It used to be my chelseahawk, but I've been rockin' something less high maintenance recently. Now, it's probably my smile, that I'm loud once you get me talking, I try to tell the truth (even if you don't want to hear it), I buy too many books, I really like cats, my sick sense of humor, my sometimes unusual dress sense and rad t-shirt collection.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Laurell K. Hamilton's Anita Blake novels, Tom Robbins, J.R.R. Tolkien, pretty much anything involving vampires or were-anythings, The Freedom Manifesto, Hardcore Zen, Crooked Little Vein, Howard Zinn, books on Feminist/Gender Theory. I adore books...the smell, the feel of the paper... it's almost a fetish.

Comics: Wormwood, The Authority, JTHM, Lenore, Global Frequency, Transmetropolitan.

Oh, and fanfic, especially by Sam_Storyteller and Demotu.

Music:goth, industrial, punk, new wave, dark wave, classical, ska, hard rock, metal, classic rock, indie rock, electronica, new wave, brit pop... basically anything.

Movies: Hedwig and the Angry Inch, RHPS, Shortbus, Underworld, Bram Stoker's Dracula, Resevoir Dogs, Kill Bill, Queen of the Damned, V for Vendetta, Party Monster, Serenity, Lord of the Rings, Star Wars(4 - 6), Blood and Chocolate, Tank Girl, Stranger Than Fiction, Shaun of the Dead, Hot Fuzz, I <3 Huckabees, Bond Movies, Examined Life, Sherlock Holmes, Iron Man 1 & 2 Just because I like to watch things explode, it doesn't mean I don't like drama. I just prefer characters I can root for.

Food: Indian, Chinese, Japanese, Vietnamese, Italian, Burmese, Afgani, French, Greek, Russian, Eritrean/Ethiopian, Mexican, Thai. I am, however, not a gluten eater, so I can seem pretty picky.

TV: Archer, Venture Bros., Lost Girl, Sherlock, Dr. Who,, Torchwood, Orange Is The New Black, Arrow, Agents of Shield, Peggy Carter, Game of Thrones, Bob's Burgers
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My books, caffeine, physical contact, humor, good friends and lovers, trees, passion
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
ethics, politics, gender and sexuality, smashing the capitalist patriarchy, kicking bad guy ass with my super necromancer, gun slinging, judo chopping Anita Blake crime fighting skills ( I have an active imagination), hobbits
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I just got off the two-jobs-plus-school hamster wheel, so I'm still trying to reinvent a social life for myself. I'm open to anything that doesn't involve binge drinking or bodily injury.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
lame question
You should message me if
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You find me interesting. . . and the fact that I'm not into monogamy doesn't bug you out.
You wanna go out dancing sometime.
You wanna smoke and watch episodes of Archer or Dr. Who.
You wanna get your kink on. For reals.