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softshock87

27 Flagstaff, AZ Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Gay men only
  • Ages 21–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 21
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Other
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Student
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Other (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
"Every passing minute is another chance to turn it all around."

I've always liked that line from one of my favorite movies and it holds true for many things that come our way. But anyhow hello there! Greetings! Howdy! Thanks for stumbling upon my page. I'm just a young professional still making my way through my 20's. I'm originally from middle of nowhere, Arizona where I grew up before I embarked on my educational journey that has gotten me to where I currently am. At this moment, I am taking things as they come and being optimistic. Yeah!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am at a crossroads. I am taking baby steps for my next big adventure. We shall see how this pans out!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Debunking stereotypes. Haha. Oh yeah and keeping my cool in stressful situations and listening to people. I also like to think I'm somewhat good at karaoke. haha. I can sing the lights out of Train 'Drops of Jupiter'.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I tend to have a really loud, boisterous laugh and my smile I guess.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I luff movies!!! But to name a few off the top of my head....200 cigarettes, party monster, her, LOTR trilogy, love and basketball, boys dont cry, VANILLA SKY, zombie movies, inglorious basterds, beginners, star wars, EMPIRE RECORDS, girl interrupted, cast away, schindler's list, dances with wolves, rollercoaster, the perks of being a wallflower, clueless, the craft, soldiers girl, nick and nora's infinite playlist, young adult, gia.......can't forget the one and only Titanic. ;)

music is my fuel and I'm a serious consumer. I listen to freaking everything seriously. Some favorites are: Smashing Pumpkins, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Interpol, Of Monsters and Men, the XX, Kings of Leon, Hole, Weezer, Imagine Dragons, Dave Matthews Band, Third Eye Blind, Tegan and Sara, etc, etc...
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You said you couldn't stay
You'd seen it all before
I know
They sold you on their way
Oh honey that's ok

No harm, he's armed
Setting off all your alarms
When I find out
I hope it's you who set this trap

And storefronts rarely change
At least I'm on my own again instead of
Anywhere with you
Oh tell me it's all the same

And I've lost my place again
I know this is so rare
But I'll try my luck with you
This life is on my side
Oh I am your one
Believe me, this is a chance

Let's see what is for sale
He's trying hard to give his job a chance
It's never gonna be
It's sad, but I agree
The signals don't seem right
It lasts for just one night, and then
I'm sorry that I said
That we were just good friends

No harm, he's armed
Setting off all your alarms
Entranced, I can't
Be here in time I'll think about that

And I've lost my page again
I know this is so rare
But I'll try my luck with you
This life is on my side
Well I am your one
Believe me, this is a chance
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I love Netflix. Orange is the New Black, American Horror Story, Breaking Bad, Project Runway are some shows that enjoy.

As far as food goes...uhh I'm mostly a sandwich person... used to absolutely enjoy dishing up extravagant meals but ever since I became single meh not so much however I can make some bomb ass tacos and enchiladas but I'm not Mexican. lol.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. mom+family
2. Verizon
3. the internet
4. friends
5. animals
6. education
........after no.1...no particular order.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
randomness....so if I say something completely off topic or unrelated to the conversation, don't mind me. lol. Aside from that I also think a lot about places I would like to travel to. I guess that could be pretty random too.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out and about or staying in eating take-out/cooking dinner with some wine and the music playing. lol. I've come to the realization that I don't go out as often these days which I attribute to not being around crazy friends anymore which is good I guess.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Kinda defeats the purpose, eh?
You should message me if
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want to message me. Or if you're not a sociopath or a fucking narcissist. lol. I'm just speaking from a previous relationship.
I'm a nice guy. Take care. :)