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phantom_signal

40 Montreal, Quebec, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:07am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
A little extra
Diet
Anything
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on Ph.D program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Status
Single
Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Like all of you, I'm fairly busy with life things, but increasingly focus that time on the things I enjoy the most, whether that's work, play, or people.

Otherwise, here's a list that sums me up pretty well I think

Charming.
Chubby.
Rabble-Rouser
bit of an odd-duck, yet pretty grounded.
equal parts skeptic and believer.
equal parts cynic and optimist
equal parts introvert and extrovert.
equal parts realist and daydreamer
equal parts traveler and homebody.
hard to impress, but easily amused.
socially and emotionally intelligent.
rarely shy, but sometimes bashful.
best practices always, in all things.
Community is important to me.
I cut my own hair.
2/3 of my instagram feed contains pictures of my cats.
I make art, I curate, I study, I teach, I play.
feminist, ally and all around left-leaner.

It's also worth mentioning I think that I have a soft spot for the misfits, the underdogs, the out of the ordinary....basically people who move to their own rhythms, rather than prescribed ones.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
working on my PhD. doing art things. Building Synthesizers.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
lots of things, but my newest endeavour is teaching one of my cats to play the toy piano! want proof? i have videos!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Generally its that I don't look my age. Most people think I'm much younger than I am, which has its advantages. Recently, when she found out how old I am, a colleague asked me where I hid the aging portrait of myself!

or if its on here, that i have a thing for weird sunglasses and eyewear.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like all kinds of films from different genres, though I lean heavily on sci-fi. My first degree was a film degree, so I still have a love for classics: Kurosawa being one of my favorites. and Anything Godzilla! The same could be said for my TV preferences. Others: the Wire, Walking Dead, Breaking Bad, Luther, Sopranos, etc.

Books: a lot of theory books at the moment. Stuff on the history of new media, archival practices and curation... though favorite fiction authors include: Gaiman, Gibson, Auster, Coupland, Doctorow Ackroyd, Sinclair. I love books on architecture, the hidden histories of cities (like Ackroyd's London Under, which is AMAZING!)...

Musical tastes: I'm a cross genre listener, and will give anything a chance. though lately there's been a lot of indie music from diff't genres, lots of noise/ synth, ambient, electronic, grime, rock, hiphop, etc. Some of my faves right now: Le1f, Fatima el Quadiri, Eno, Aphex Twin, Matt Berry,vaporwave, algoraves and tons and tons of other stuff.

Open to any and all foods except for mushrooms, olives and broccoli. If you like that stuff, that's fine.. you can have mine!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
fizzy water
tiny note books + not so tiny notebooks
creative projects.
my cats.
.7mm liquid ink pens. in a pinch i'll take a .5mm . if i have to, i guess.
coffee.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
games. art. architecture. community. citizenship. curating. museums. archives.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
staying in and working, going out to an opening, show, or other art/ cultural thing. Having people over for food / drinks. Summer time Fridays = bbqs!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
on occasion, i've been known to listen to justin timberlake.

also. i have four cats.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're passionate.
You're creative.
You're independent.
you're a critical thinker.
You frequent local shoppes instead of the mall.
You are playful, free and happy with your life.
you're not afraid to relax and be a bit goofy.

You like the cut of my jib. or think i'd like yours.
and you have to like cats. srsly.

or you're an amateur ghost-hunter.
because that would be pretty cool.