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phantom_signal

39 M Montreal, Quebec, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:00am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Anything
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on Ph.D program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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Charming.
Chubby.
Rabble-Rouser
equal parts skeptic and believer.
equal parts cynic and optimist
equal parts introvert and extrovert.
equal parts realist and daydreamer
socially and emotionally intelligent.
rarely shy, but sometimes bashful.
best practices always, in all things.
Community is important to me.
I cut my own hair.
2/3 of my instagram feed contains pictures of my cats.
I make art, I curate, I study, I teach, I play.
What I’m doing with my life
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A PhD in an interdisciplinary program (studying digital games/ new media art/ architecture)

I make art, both digital and analog. I curate art shows. And Arcades.

I read a lot, I think about things then write about them.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
curating.
writing.
art making
grant writing.
cooking.
finding my way around strange places.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Generally its that I don't look my age. Most people think I'm much younger than I am, which has its advantages. Recently, when she found out how old I am, a colleague asked me where I hid the aging portrait of myself!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like all kinds of films from different genres, though I lean heavily on sci-fi. My first degree was a film degree, so I still have a love for classics: Kurosawa being one of my favorites. and Anything Godzilla! The same could be said for my TV preferences. Others: the Wire, Walking Dead, Breaking Bad, Luther, Sopranos, etc.

Books: a lot of theory books at the moment. Stuff on the history of new media, archival practices and curation... though favorite fiction authors include: Gaiman, Gibson, Auster, Coupland, Doctorow Ackroyd, Sinclair. I love books on architecture, the hidden histories of cities (like Ackroyd's London Under, which is AMAZING!)...

Musical tastes: I'm a cross genre listener, and will give anything a chance. though lately there's been a lot of indie music from diff't genres, lots of ambient, electronic, grime, rock, hiphop, etc. Some of my faves right now: Le1f, Fatima el Quadiri, Eno, Aphex Twin, Matt Berry,vaporwave, algoraves and tons and tons of other stuff.

Open to any and all foods except for mushrooms, olives and broccoli. If you like that stuff, that's fine.. you can have mine!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
fizzy water
tiny note books + not so tiny notebooks
creative projects.
my cats.
.7mm liquid ink pens. in a pinch i'll take a .5mm . if i have to, i guess.
coffee.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
games. art. architecture. community. citizenship. curating. museums. archives.

how much people tie being busy to their own sense of cultural capital. how much i'm guilty of that. thinking about how to slow down/relax more/take a pause. but never really doing so.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
staying in and working, going out to an opening, show, or other art/ cultural thing. Having people over for delicious spicy peanut stew (I love my slow cooker!)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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on occasion, i've been known to listen to justin timberlake.
You should message me if
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You're passionate.
You're creative.
You're independent.
you're a critical thinker.
You frequent local shoppes instead of the mall.
You are playful, free and happy with your life.
you're not afraid to relax and be a bit goofy.

You like the cut of my jib. or think i'd like yours.