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32 • Brooklyn, NY • Cis Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 18–33
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Yesterday – 8:31pm
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Working on masters program
- Open relationship
- Strictly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Likes dogs and has cats
First off, I'm in a non-monogamous relationship with the amazing therural_juror. We date people independently, which is what this profile is for. However, if you're interested in the both of us, you can check out frankandclaire. If you have any questions about us, please feel free to ask. I love talking about it!
So glad ok finally got it together with orientations. Queer works much better than straight for me. I'm not really interested in cis men. I'll gladly answer any questions you might have about it.
When you're in the film industry, everybody asks you your favorite movie, so I always say Adaptation., though it's something that changes on a weekly basis.
Whenever I feel particularly depressed, I always remind myself that I live in an amazing world where I can watch The Big Lebowski or any Coen bros. film whenever I want.
Zinn, Wilde, Vonnegut, Ender, Arundhati Roy, Rilke, Sagan, Harry, Edna St. Vincent Millay.
We are absolutely in TV's Golden Age right now. I can go on for hours about how amazing the combination of HBO and DVR were for American culture, but I won't do that here.
The Wire, Game of Thrones, Community, Parks and Rec., Lost, Louie, Broad City, Adventure Time, The Venture Bros., Avatar: The Last Airbender.
I grew up listening to punk rock (mostly street punk), so that'll always be my first love.
The rest: The Magnetic Fields, The Kinks, Bowie, Joy Division, World/Inferno Friendship Society, They Might Be Giants, Talking Heads, Roxy Music, Lou Reed.
I put almost no stock in music as a signifier of a potential match.
This American Life, The Savage Lovecast, Slate's Spoiler Specials, Stuff You Should Know, Serial.
I like pretty much everything but mayonnaise. I'm not really into seafood, but I blame that mostly on my lack of exposure to it. I love anything spicy. I grow all my own chilis and make my own hot sauces. Pizza and ice cream are probably my two favorite foods, you know, because I'm 7.
Why people never include art and sport in the list of "things that matter."
How lucky I am.
I've got some issues with anxiety that I'm treating. I tend to prefer people who aren't scared to talk about mental health.
My spirit animal isn't as self-congratulatory as yours.
A million points bonus if you think therural_juror is super rad and want to hang out with both of us. She's even better in person.
A million more bonus points if you're currently partnered or have experience with non-monogamy.
If you want to ask me questions about my relationship and non-monogamy instead of making assumptions about them. I think I/we might surprise you.
You don't mention anything about being partners in crime. Unless you're an actual criminal. Minus 947 points if you're holding a gun in your pics.
You make bold hair choices.
You want to make a hairstyle suggestion. I'm looking to do something new.
You're Ilana Glazer.
You're a feminist.
Eternal Sunshine is one of your favorite movies (I'm pretty sure this is 94% of my matches).
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