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  • Ages 27–43
  • Near me
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Last online
Today – 11:38am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Atheism, and laughing about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm not a list so if you rate me highly, please visit as well.
Under construction.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm living the dream, no...really.

I come from a long line of government workers and I have happily joined their ranks. I also happen to believe that government can be a solution. My job can be quite stressful but it also allows me the opportunity to directly help people who need serious help.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Sarcasm, which has been known to involve a crushingly witty comebacks,I give a mean massage and I've been told I make pretty awesome mix-cds too.

I'm also a lot better cook than I ever considered myself to be. As I live with a vegetarian I've been able to expand my horizons beyond the traditional meat + side dish meal

I'm also really good at iPhone photography. I take pictures of events and people seem to like them a lot. Maybe I should get a decent camera.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't usually ask people, but in the times this information's been offered to me I've gotten, my eyes and my in someone's overheard me talking and it piqued their interest
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
A) Kuhn- The Structure of Scientific Revolutions - not something to base your life on, but good for a serious mind fuck.

Robbins - Still Life with Woodpecker

Rollins - Black Coffee Blues

Franken - Lies and the Lying Liars that Tell Them

Hugo - Les Miserables

B) Star Wars - Yeah, all SIX of them

Sin City


Fight Club


C) The Cure; Social Distortion;Jawbreaker; They Might Be Giants; Tom Waits; Concrete Blonde; Shrug

D) I'm actually into quite a lot. This comes from having been a waiter/bartender for so long. I used to put that I wouldn't eat mushrooms or fish of any sort, but even these lifelong held distates are subject to change. Okay I still won't eat mushrooms. I tried and tried but they just aren't a thing I like.

E) Television: I don't own one, but I do get my shows somehow. Robot Chicken, The Wire, Aqua Teen Hunger Force, Battlestar Galactica, Doctor Who, Harvey Birdman, Invader Zim, Dr. Who
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My computer and an internet connection, Awesome people to interact with in the flesh, Caffeine, Mental Stimulation, an Unlimited Text Message Plan

Six is up for grabs, I've lived without everything else for so long.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to bring about the liberal socialist utopia I want.
How to make the world more sex positive.
My own prejudices, privilege, and myopia. How have these changed over my life?
Am I being the person I should be, am I living up to what I expect of others?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
This is actually up for grabs. Lately I've been changing habits. Early in the evening I'm at the gym, later on I'm probably out with friends.

I learned a long time ago, it's not so much what you are doing, but more who you are doing it with.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have 7 tattoos

I'm also slightly I might misspell some things. I really do live by my spell-checker
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have a story to tell or you'd like to hear a good story...or if you just think I'm in any way interesting.

You should also be at least accepting of Polyamory. I am polyamorous, in an open ethical and honest polyamorous relationship, and quite happy with it.

You're okay with Atheists. I am one, I'm not apologetic about this.