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27 Indianapolis, IN Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:16pm
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body type
A little extra
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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Hey everyone! I'm a happy, funny, good-natured person. I love meeting new people, which happens to be an asset in my field! I hold a BA in English from Hanover College, as well as an MSW (master of social work) from IUPUI here in town. I am a licensed social worker, but I would like to return to school to earn my Ph.D. in psychology with a minor in human sexuality. I would eventually like to counsel gay couples or do general sex therapy in private practice.

Right now I am content to teach 3 psych courses per semester at a local community college and continue to see clients on the side.

Otherwise, I am really into science fiction. I am a Trekkie, born and raised. (Yes, I am one of THOSE people.) I also enjoy Doctor Who and Stargate among others. My favorite television drama is Law and Order: Special Victims Unit. (Sex crimes, go figure!) I am trying to motivate myself to get back to the gym, as I am beginning to feel somewhat round. I feel good when I do, so it would be nice to have someone to share that experience with.

As far as relationships go, here is what I am looking for:
+Must be able to make me laugh (Sarcasm is accepted, but in moderation please. ;) )
+Must be a cuddler (I am a very physically affectionate person.)
+Must be smart. (A knowledge of Renaissance literature, science fiction, and/or some aspect of psychology is a definite plus.)
+Must be a communicator (This means more than general pleasantries. It includes emotional communication, which I believe is essential to any relationship.)
+Must have at least a moderate sex drive. (I generally top, but I really enjoy simpler things like making out and handjobs. I give amazing head. ;) )
What I’m doing with my life
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Honestly, it is hard to say right now. With two degrees, a license, and being over a year into being a therapist, I'm really not sure what I'm doing, but I do know that I am seeking out something to be passionate about. Maybe someone can help me out there!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Well, it's definitely hard to toot my own horn, but here goes... I'm definitely a good listener, and I love to make people laugh. I wouldn't say that I am really good at either, but I love to sing and dance. I feel free and happy when I do either one.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've been told that I have the face of a listener, so I would say that is probably what people most often notice first. I have also been complimented on my smile, my eyes, and even my butt on occasion. :D
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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As far as books are concerned, I haven't been reading nearly as much as I should lately. I've been trying to get back into the habit. Although I do love my classics, like The Canterbury Tales and nearly any of Shakespeare's plays, I also relish good science fiction, especially stories of distopian societies...Fahrenheit 451, 1984, Brave New World, and The Giver. I also enjoy reading about psychology, especially human sexuality and sexual development.

My two favorite movies of all time would have to be Contact and The Sound of Music. I love Jodi Foster, and I believe that this is one of the best of her films. Just about anything she has been in is fine with me though. :) The Sound of Music has been one of my favorites since I was a little kid. I once played Uncle Max in my high school's production, and I had a huge crush on Julie Andrews growing up!

Don't even get me started on shows! There are too many for me to honor in detail. Currently, I am watching Masters of Sex and I LOVE Law and Order: Special Victims Unit. I am, of course, both a Trekkie and a Whovian as well.

I will listen to any music at least once. My tastes are pretty ecclectic. I refuse to touch hard rap or heavy metal, but most anything else is fine!

For food, I will eat just about anything that isn't terribly spicy. I love Chinese and Italian the most, but I have developed a taste for both English and French as well! My all-time favorite meal is Salmon with macaroni and cheese. :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-My family
-My friends
-My senses
-My emotions
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My purpose. I wonder what I am on Earth to do. Currently, I am wondering most about where my passions lie. I would love to feel passionate about something, and I would also love to have someone to share that with.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Well, right now, not doing a whole hell of a lot! That's why I am here! :D
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have two false teeth. Can you spot them? ;)
You should message me if
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you want to get to know me better. I'm very open! :)