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My self-summary
Ok, so finally updating this. Look please talk to me. I am friendless and lonely. Be the one to change that. Will some please just talk to me?

My name is Alex, please call me Aj. I just moved to Tulsa and I am starting over fresh. I just quit my job at IHOP, and since found another job at Papa Murphy's then lost it and found another at Jimmy's Egg, and I look forward to getting back on my feet. I currently live with my awesome mom, whom I was taken from as a child, so I am kinda milking the mom time.

I want to go to school, but right now I just want to find something to ground me on earth, while my head is in the clouds.

I like out doorsy stuff, but don't get much opportunity to do much, and since I got here in July I was shocked that I haven't really been able to find time to do the outdoor stuff.. but I guess that's life.

Mostly I am looking for new friends, but if I find something more, I will be a happy camper.

For those who read questions, I quit smoking. Just an Exit now... no or little nicotine.

What I’m doing with my life
Getting out of the dark hole that is my past. Like I said, I just moved here, I came from Tucson, where I was homeless, drug addicted, and not doing well with the family. To escape the downhill battle I was in, I moved here, and so far it has been the right choice.. As for what I am doing, just trying to make new friends and get back on my feet.
I’m really good at
Obsessing over odd things. Like why the wood in Harry's wand is special, and if you know why, leave me a message and we will get along great.

I love the fandom life, or as much of it as I am in. Mostly just Doctor Who. 9 is clever in a sexy way, 10 has the sexiest hair, 11 is well, a baby raptor, and 12.. i haven't met yet sadly.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably my loud mouth. I like to talk, and laugh and I LOVE making others smile. My mouth often gets me in trouble, when i misuse a phrase, because i tend to lack the brain to mouth filter....

Also that I am kinda cuddly, and not the most in shape person. I like my size, but I am going to work on it when I can.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
To many to list but here the ones that stand out in my mind
The Hunger Games
Harry Potter
Cirque du Freak
any prequel star wars books pertaining to anakin, really dont know why.
but books arent really my thing, because i am really picky about them.
and fanfiction ((so what if its cheating Starshine))

Anything with romance, like The lucky one,

The Hunger Games, Mirror mirror, stuff like that, but i just LOVE movies in general. So i became obsessed with NETFLIX

From netflix: I like family guy, and american dad suprisingly, um... i love DOCTOR WHO... that s. Um.. Sherlock, though I only made it so far, and an assortment of silly cartoons, both for kids and adults...

Music, is my favorite thing in the world. Could not live with out it. I love most kinds, country is a hard one for me at times. But I do try. But i mostly enjoy small time artists that are mostly, if not only found on YOUTUBE. Veela, Dan Bull, ERB, Lindsey Stirling, etc. Not saying I dont like other bands, I do, but if you want to know more of them, you should really message me..

FOOD, oh god do i love food((hence my large like size belly but hey i am working on it....))
I like flavors, and zest, and just how artful food seems to be. I like to invent things, and throw things together for the hell of it, not weird stuff, but you know.. like my latest creation is the MONSTER quessidilla. three types of cheese, layers of jalepenos, onions, hot sauce, cheese, cheese, and more cheese, and it GOOEY and EPIC.. RAWRRRRRR
The six things I could never do without
Video games

There are other things I cant live without, but, I have learned to do without since I got here.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The social life I don't have. Like how I would like to be out having fun with friends, but I don't have any friends. Like how I would like to have someone to hole while watching a movie, but I don't have anyone.. lol.. I am kinda a loner and I want to change it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working all night. I work the Graveyard at Ihop, as a server, trying to make that money.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I consider myself boring...

I don't like peaches, but I love peach cobbler

I love cupcakes, but I hate cake.

I don't eat chocolate unless its white.

I love silence, but I hate to be alone.

I love working, but I hate looking for a job.

I seem to have no goals, but my goals are small, so I can achieve them.
You should message me if
Willing to give me a shot.. I am not perfect, I never will be, but I have to go with what I got, and right now it isn't much.

Your not shallow. I am not the best looking person in the world, I know that, and I probably wont be, but I don't want that to be held over my head like an endless joke.

You can love me, despite my flaws, my mistakes, and my past addictions.

Over the age of 21 is preferred, but not required.