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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25-50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 23
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Agnosticism and it’s important
High school
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
English (Fluently), Russian (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm definitely an extrovert, but I seem to have a tendency to be drawn to introverts. I think this indicates a desire to have a relationship that takes work, rather than something that just comes easily. That being said, I tend to avoid drama like the plague. I communicate well, and love finding real solutions to problems.

I'm polyamorous been practicing polyamory for about eight years, now, and it's definitely the path for me. I get along just fine with non-poly folk, but I'm not interested in a relationship with anyone not poly.

I am compassionate, reliable, and experimental
What I’m doing with my life
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In November 2006 I hung out the sign on my own auction company and started working for free. Now, I didn't intend to be working for free, but isn't that always the way when you start a business? Anyway, I'm, an auctioneer, and in June 2007, I will be holding my first auction of antiques and collectibles. About a month after that I'll have my second auction. About a month ago I went from twiddling my thumbs at the office to being slammed with 70 hour work weeks. All for the best, though, and I can just about taste what it's going to be like to really get the business rolling. Wish me luck!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I communicate really openly and well. I don't mind revealing things about myself. I also understand that it's difficult to trust people, so I offer up my trust in poeple first.

I also get a lot of compliments on my hug and kisses.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My big, shiny, bald head.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A. I am not the voracious reader that most of my friends are, but I am a big Robert Heinlein fan. I also really enjoy Richard North Patterson. Probably my favorite book of the past year was The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier & Clay by Michael Chabon.

B. I really love a broad range of films. All time favorites include Once Upon a Time in America, Ragtime, and The Hustler. I tend to really enjoy independent films and foreign films, too. Garden State rocked.

C. My music tastes tend to range widely, too. Mostly it's of the I-know-what-I-like-when-I-hear-it variety. I loved the Garden State soundtrack. I tend to eschew pop, though.Rock, classic rock especially, I really enjoy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends, lovers, my laptop, pizza, Vermont, hugs.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
A woman I'm having sex with. I so love watching orgasms, that I would love to crawl inside and experience it from the other perspective.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either on a date, with friends, or home watching a movie or the Sox.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a big fan of good porn.
You should message me if
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You think I sound interesting.