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24 M Raleigh, NC

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Last Online
Today – 1:53pm
5′ 7″ (1.71m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English (Poorly), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Born and raised in China, I came to the states in 2009 to start my masters in computer science at NC State. It took me a year and a half to finish that, and I started working for a software company since then. But I don't think this is the job I want to settle for. I'm making efforts to change that and hopefully I will always have the drive and willpower to resist getting comfortable with what I currently have.

So I'm a big music fan. I first had the idea of coming to the states in high school. And at that time the motivation's definitely less about college and job but more about 'I'm gonna buy whatever record I want and go to every single show I can possibly find when I get there', cause there really isn't much going on in China's music scene. I also love to cook, standing in front of the counter waiting for onion to caramelize is how I relax and I could go on and on about how you choose the best pan for steamed rice...
What I’m doing with my life
Figuring out an answer to that question, and at times / spending too much time debating if I should be doing the figuring out in the first place.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movie - The Color Wheel, Lost in Translation, Chungking Express, In the Mood for Love, Elephant, The Son(2002), Stranger by the Lake, There Will Be Blood, Synecdoche, New York

Tv - season 2 of Weeds, Enlightened, Six Feet Under

Music - Bjork up until Medulla, Sidsel Endresen, Misha Alperin, Supersilent, The Knife (Anyone going to the 5/1 new york show??!!), Liars, Destroyer, Deerhoof, The Magnetic Fields, Cassandra Wilson

If you like three or more acts from the above list, please message me to claim a dinner cooked by me.

Working my way towards the bottom~

Food - Ham & cheese croissant from Weaver Street Market reheated in a 300F oven for 10 minutes
- My imitation(on a good day) of Jacques Génin's lemon tart
- Milk from Ran-Lew Dairy that WSM just started to carry. It makes the world much, much more wonderful. And makes me wonder how good raw milk would be
The six things I could never do without
- Family and friends
- Sunshine, after I started working I realize there is nothing I hate more than a rainy weekend
- Side mirrors in bathroom that can rotate so I can see my back and cut my own hair
- Pretentious french cookbooks that I type into evernote manually and have to use with google translate
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
- I just spent half an hour trying to get the white balance right on this fish. (if you can tell it's shot by film please also message me to claim the aforementioned dinner)

- I'm hopelessly attracted to Bob from Bob's Burgers
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 20–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating