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tola7

26 / F / Straight / Seeing someone

Corona del Mar, California

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 6" (1.67m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
New friends, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Leo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Afrikaans (Fluently), Sign Language (Okay), German (Okay), Yiddish (Poorly)

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I am dreamy, unrealistic, and old school.

My Self-Summary

"None of us will make it out of this life alive, so we may as well die well"

"It's the open road ahead of me that is my destiny..." Tarryn Ter-Morshuizen

"The brave may not live forever, the cautious do not live at all"

"If you can dream it, you can do it." - Walt Disney

"Nothing happens unless first a dream." - Carl Sandburg

"Our truest life is when we are in our dreams awake." - Henry David Thoreau

"In dreams and in love, there are no impossibilities" - Janos Arany

"No dream comes true until you wake up and go to work."

"No dreamer is ever too small, no dream is ever too big." -

I am very boring, fat and ugly, I spend most of my time eating at macdonalds and feeding pigeons (when I see them) I play the organ and panpipes, I grew up in a small town on a farm, and love picking oranges.

I am very short, got teased a lot at school being called "mini-me" - the short, fat and ugly kid, but I figured, as long as I close my eyes when I look in the mirror, I don't look half bad... Oh, and I have frizzy hair, guess I got the raw deal hah?

I'm probably looking for someone who is blind... I think myself to be a really nice person under and behind the hideous disguise. I'm at a stable place, and am open to people laughing at me, and in fact - I like the name "mini-me" And I figure, that so long as people laugh at me, at least they're laughing :)

What I’m doing with my life

I am currently travelling the world in the hopes to sell my photographs and video, to publish my own book based on my travels... I made it through 25 states of the USA last year, and have just returned from a camping trip to Namibia... now onto the rest of the 259 countries of the world...

COUNTRIES I'VE BEEN TO:

South Africa Lesotho Swaziland Mozambique Zimbabwe Malawi Namibia

Switzerland U.K

United Arab Emirates Singapore

USA Bahamas Mexico

I’m really good at

Umm... this is dificult to answer...

Um, I suppose I would have to say writing, I love writing poetry especially, but would like to one day write a novel, a screenplay, as well as publish all my journals of all my travels...

I am good at adapting to situations and living arrangements very quickly, I make the best with what I have... I guess I just always try to enjoy life no matter where I am, even though it may be far from my ideal...

I like to listen to people, learn about them and their cultures, I think I am better at listening than talking...

I love my family, and would do anything for them...

The first things people usually notice about me

Definately my toes...

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

(a) "The power of one"

(b) Any with good humour, a good twist... or even some good old soppy romance!

(c) All

(d) Cereal and Roast Chicken but not together...

The six things I could never do without

1: God 2: My mom and dad 3: Water 4: Love - Reint 5: Hope 6: and dreams

I spend a lot of time thinking about

What I will be doing next... Where the open road leads to next...

On a typical Friday night I am

Probably having an early night if there was work the next day, or e-mailing my babe in Sudan, or watching a movie, or perhaps attempting another poem... I might also be singing at the top of my voice to myself in the shower... An all time favourite

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I read the dictionary once...???...

You should message me if

You have nice toes too...