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JediLofty

36 / M / Straight / Single

Royal Tunbridge Wells, United Kingdom

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 7" (2.00m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Dislikes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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Your Notes

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I am tall, friendly, and loving.

My Self-Summary

I am a 6'7" smoker who doesn't drink. A computer programmer by trade, I'm a big fan of science fiction and technology in general. Sport, on the other hand, doesn't interest me in the slightest, although I'll watch snooker or pool if it's on (and there's nothing else worth watching on TV) and enjoy playing both.

Family and friends are very important to me (I turned down a job in Colorado because it would mean too much time spent away from them) and most weekends involve relaxing in a pub with a group of close friends, or evenings in watching DVDs and playing PlayStation games with the same.

I don't like nightclubs or "factory-produced" music - If I want music I'd rather go and see a live band (even a covers band) play - and I don't dance!

My musical tastes basically centre around rock/metal - loud guitars are a definite plus, but I prefer sung, rather than shouted vocals: if the vocalist isn't singing a tune that can be played on an instrument, then the band loses points, in my book!

I've been described as a gentleman... these days that seems to be seen as an insult rather than a compliment, so I'm not sure how to take it. I've also been told that I have a big heart, but it seems that all that means is that it's easier for it to be broken.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm working as a computer programmer for a small company in Kent.

My free time gets divided between hanging out with friends and staying in, surfing the 'net.

I’m really good at

Listening to people's problems. I don't judge and I don't necessarily offer advice, but I listen.

The first things people usually notice about me

The fact that I'm 6'7", usually!

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Terry Pratchett, Arthur C. Clarke.

Movies: The "Star Wars" and "Alien" series, "Where the Heart is", "Virtual Sexuality", "Monty Python and the Holy Grail".

Music: Iron Maiden, Linkin Park, Guns N' Roses, Megadeth, Skid Row (Bach-era), Disturbed, LostProphets, 2 Unlimited, Jean-Michel Jarre.

Food: Mexican, Indian, Pizza (Pizza Hut's "stuffed crust"... divine!!!)

The six things I could never do without

Friends and family, laughter, my glasses, nicotine, caffeiene and my mobile 'phone!

I spend a lot of time thinking about

People I care about

On a typical Friday night I am

Sitting in a pub, drinking Diet Coke, socialising with friends

You should message me if

You rate personality higher than looks.