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shidaoPhoenix

27 / M / Straight / Single

London, United Kingdom

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 6" (1.70m).
Body Type
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and somewhat serious about it
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Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Kids
Pets
Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Portuguese (Fluently), Japanese, C++

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My Self-Summary
Well... I am a geeky, open-minded, energetic and playful guy. I value both the mental, the physical and the spiritual/emotional. Many of my interests and traits are unusual, so I'm not a very mainstream/conventional person. Ok, this sounds kinda cheesy and confusing but read on:

I am a geek, a dweller of the imagination: I love fantasy and sci-fi, be it in movies, series, games, books, etc.. That includes anime and manga. I'm an avid gamer, I like both single-player story-based games, and multiplayer/competitive games (the ones where you can pwn). I say "LOL" in RL :). I'm not super-obsessed with a particular fandom, like some geeks are, but maybe it's just because there isn't one I really, really like - I'm very picky. To a less extent, I also enjoy intellectual challenges, in particular computer and programming stuff, my field of work.

Despite my geekness, I love several physical activities, like martial arts, Yoga, dancing/clubbing, combat simulations like paintball or airsoft, and few more occasional ones like simply going to the beach or snowboarding. Basicly I like activities which are physically (and hopefully also mentally) challenging, fun, and intense. It sucks though, that I have a spine problem, which severely limits a lot of what I could do, especially in the more physically demanding stuff like yoga and MA.

I try to live a healthy lifestyle, and like to be of sound mind and body, so I avoid alcohol, smoking, drugs, and I'm mostly vegetarian. (Unfortunately, I also never have truly restful sleep because I have mild narcolepsy.)
I'm ambitious and hardworking, but also hedonistic and laid-back. On one moment I could be pumping really hard at the gym, and on another I could be sitting at the couch playing games and eating chocolate... lots of chocolate.. I love most fluffy and cutesy things, lol (cats FTW!).
Oh, and how could I not mention, I am deeply attracted to female beauty and sensuality. Sex is prevalent in my mind. Because of that, I try to improve and take care of my body, aesthetics wise (still plenty to be done on that area!). So kudos to all the Shaktis out there.

I have a friendly, humorous, and casual personality, and like nice people, people who don't get upset by things that are really not that important. I'm rational and open-minded, and seek a certain spiritual and personal development. I deeply value honesty and being open about yourself, beyond a point that most people find comfortable.
I would love to expand my consciousness if that would ever be possible.

I have a blog at http://daiphoenix.livejournal.com, providing a further glimpse into my mind and activities.

I am geeky, energetic, and open-minded

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What I’m doing with my life
Working in software development, rebooting my life and career at London, after having moved here in late 2008.

Pumping at the gym, because apparently my superior intellect is not enough to get me laid. :o
Also trying to find more free time to go to dance lessons and improve my skills. It's something I regret not having done sooner, as it is pretty cool.

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I’m really good at
*Pwning noobs.*

(at least I was in the ages before I got swamped with work and lost my skillz)

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My favorite books, movies, music, and food
MUSIC : Trance, Techno, Club, and all Electronica in general. DJ Tiesto stands as my absolute favorite in this area. Also (still in the electronica area) some chillout and ethereal. A few metal, some soundtrack/epic music. Videogame music. The amazing Dead Can Dance.

GAMES: RPGs, FPSs, RTSs, mostly. Also DDR. Favorites: Quake, Half-Life, Planescape Torment, Fallout, Max Payne, Suikoden. (http://www.xfire.com/profile/daiphoenix)

MOVIES: Mostly sci-fi/fantasy, anime, comedies, but also some dramas a bit, and other kinds of movies if they are good. Favorites are: 2001- A Space Odyssey, Akira, Ghost in the Shell.

BOOKS : The *great* Lord of the Rings and Middle Earth books. Various sci-fi books like 2001 Space Oddissey, and others. But that was in my reading heydays, nowadays I have little free time for this.

FOODS : Indian, Chinese/Thai, Japanese. I'm (ovo-lacto) vegetarian, (most of the time), and I like it spicy, tasty, and mostly healthy. But I do occasionally indulge myself with some fast food... And chocolate and sweets... *nhum* *nhum* :D

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The six things I could never do without
* Computers and the Internet.

* 8 hours of uninterrupted sleep a day

* Freedom and personal independence

* A healthy body, fit enough for exercise.

* Imagination and an open-mind

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I spend a lot of time thinking about
Computer and logic problems. Epic fantasy & sci-fi tales and battles. The divine beauty of the female body. Where should I take cover from enemy fire. Awesome Sex. Philosophy and Existence. Internet fads (O RLY?). My back woes.

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The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't brush my teeth nearly as often as I should... ~~

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I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18-35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, activity partners, casual sex
You should message me if
You are also a geek, but are not allergic to the sun and physical activities. :P

Or you are into trance/techno/house and like dancing/clubbing. I miss clubbing and it would be nice to explore London's night scene.

And it's a plus if you love cats and fluffy animals. ^^

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