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TraurigesGlueck

22 / M / gay / Single

Springfield, Missouri

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Skinny
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Pisces and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), German (Okay)

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I am empathetic, determined, and gullible.

My Self-Summary

I'm gay and open-minded. I love talking to different types of people. I love cultures and languages, especially German. I am more interested in a real relationship than one-night stands, no-strings kind of thing. I am pretty much feeling lonely and confused right now in my life and am always looking for a boyfriend that's just right. I really have no idea of what else to say here.

What I’m doing with my life

Well, I'm going to college right now and majoring in Psychology, minoring in German. I am not thinking too far ahead of that though right now because one never knows when he will change his mind. I am sort of looking for a real relationship.

I’m really good at

I seem to have a predisposition or natural talent for understanding and caring, which is why I am majoring in Psychology right now. I am really empathetic, almost too empathetic. I sense other people's feelings more than my own some times. I am also at an intermediate level in German. I really love to learn new languages.

The first things people usually notice about me

I can be quite shy a lot of the time. Most of the time, I don't get to know many people until they make the first move, because I have three anxiety disorders that I am desparately struggling with in my life right now. I will overcome them though. I don't personally have that good of an outlook on my physical beauty or appearance. I don't really think I look all that good for a variety of reasons, but I will overcome that too, I hope.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

(a)Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter. I don't actually read books for leisure much anymore. I'm kind of preoccupied with college homework and reading. (b)I have so many different movies, I will never be able to come up with them all right here right now, but.... I like the Lord of the Rings trilogy, the Harry Potter movies, Blue Citrus Hearts, Family & Friends, Rent, tv shows Oz and Queer as Folk. I am a really open person when it comes to movies. I like practically all horror/thriller movies. I love most gay dramas and comedies. (c)mostly Rock, like System of a Down and Rammstein, but I listen to a large variety of others, like Josh Groban, Il Divo, Classical, soundtracks, club/dance, pop, some hip-hop and rap, Musicals (love Rent and Phantom of the Opera)... (d)I like a large variety of foods as well. I love foreign foods, like European foods and Asian foods. I also happen to like McDonald's even though I am aware that it is not very good for me, stuff like hamburgers (best with mayo)...

The six things I could never do without

1) my two nephews, whom I adore beyond my own life. I practically live for them. 2) family 3) Life (j/k, of course I can't do without life).....friends

Add more later......

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Life, like the philosophy of life and the human brain. I think about very very deep things. Some of those things I actually can not begin to explain because they are beyond words. I think about religion, or shall I say, the Divine. I think a lot about the world and how we can make it better for everyone. I think about Psychology actually. Yes, I even think about it outside of College...crazy, I know. I also tend to think a lot about hot guys and my future (i hope) relationship with the one and only.

On a typical Friday night I am

Doing homework for class. I used to go to Martha's most Fridays or Saturdays, but I don't have the time or money or whatever much anymore, and soon I won't be able to go anyway because the city is restricting our (as in anyone between 18 and 21) personal American freedoms. I can't do much about that though.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have quite a few problems.....I will just leave it at that....too much and too annoying to talk about.

You should message me if

You are gay and live in Springfield, MO and are good-looking and searching for an actual partner or just a date, just NOT A HOOK-UP. I AM NOT INTO HOOK-UPS...