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Monte_Cristo

26 / M / straight / Single

Hutchinson, Kansas

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 2" (1.87m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and very serious about it
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs and Dislikes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Other (Fluently), Italian (Fluently)

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I am old fashioned, challenging, and tall.

My Self-Summary

Let's see. I told myself when I was younger, that if I lived to be 25, and I was not married by then, then I would never get married. Well I am now 25, halfway to 26. I think I might have changed my mind about marriage. I have changed drastically since the last time I updated my profile. I used to be angry all the time, just with life in general. I now find humor in everything. I used to hate my job and every one of my co-workers, but now I have a job that I love going to, and couldn't ask for better people to work with. I have become more open minded, and I view life with a totally new perspetive.
Recently I was with a girl that I thought I had a good relationship with. After about two weeks of dating I find out that she never shared the same feelings for me that I had for her. That seems to be a problem with me. I have a hard emotional shell and evertime I open up to someone I seem to get hurt. For years I have never really tried to find a girl, they always seem to find me. After talking with my best friend, I was told that maybe it's time that I start looking for myself. I can handle any physical pain that this world throws at me, but it's the emotional pains that I have a hard time dealing with. For once I would like to find somebody that I know I can open up to and not get hurt after I open myself up.

The spring/summer are my favourite times of the year. I love fishing and hunting. I spend the majority of my free time during the summer fishing or camping. I love the outdoors. I also enjoy working outdoors too. The heat doesn't bother me as much as it does some of my friends, so I usually spend my time outside by myself. This gives me alone time, which I could absolutely not live without.

I'm a huge fan of the Cubs, Juventus, and the Tampa Bay Buccaneers. I can sit down and watch any game of baseball however, as it is my favourite sport.

I don't want to seem picky, but I have never really liked or dated blondes. It may sound like I'm being stereotypical here, but I want to be with someone that I can hold a decent conversation with about the topics that I find most interesting. History, sociology, sciences, languages and general social topics that I have never been able to converse when with a blonde. I have a higher than average IQ and would like to share it with someone within the same area. I prefer redheads, but I find brunettes equally attractive.

I love to travel, and have been to many places. I speak fluent Italian, and I can probably still make out some proper sentences from the four other languages I used to know, French, Spanish, Greek, and Russian. I also love to cook. Nothing makes me happier than sitting down to a fine dinner that I have just prepared.

What I’m doing with my life

I work full time, but I still have time to go out with my friends.

I’m really good at

It's hard to give ones' personal opinion about anything that involves a positive reaction. I tend to analyze everything, whether it be a tough problem at work, or trying to figure out the expression on someone's face. I like to face problems that seem almost impossible to figure out, and solve them.

The first things people usually notice about me

I have to face alot of general public at work, so when I have to smile at people it is usually a fake smile. I have been told that I have a good looking natural smile. Most of my friends will say that I have a good sense of humour. Not everybody understands it, but I do like to make people laugh.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

A.) The Count of Monte Cristo, The Hunchback of Notre Dame, Animal Farm (pretty much all of the old classics)
B.) Interview with A Vampire,The American Pie Series ,Donnie Braso
C.)This is my entire collection of CD's. Alphabetical of course. AC/DC, Aerosmith, Alice in Chains, America, Audioslave, The Beatles, The Beach Boys, Big & Rich, Big Bad Voodoo Daddy, Bille Joel (Freaking awesome), Blink 182, Blue October, Boston, Butthole Surfers, Buzz Ballads, Creed, Deep Purple, Default, Daredevil Soundtrack (wtf), Don McLean, Dvorak (I like Slavonik Dance #11 in F Minor and Brave New World's "Largo"), The Eagles, Elton John, Steve Earle, The Elms, Embrace, Finger 11, Foo Fighters, Foreigner, Green Day, Glen Miller, Goo Goo Dolls, Harvey Danger, H.I.M., Hoobastank, The Killers, Kiss, Led Zepplin, Live, Lost Prophets, Marilyn Manson, Mighty Mighty Bosstones, Mozart, Nickleback, Nirvana, Oasis, The Offspring, Pink Floyd, Puddle of Mud, P.O.D., Red Hot Chili Peppers, Rush, The Scorpions, Shinedown, Ringo Starr, The OC Supertones, Switchfoot, System of a Down, Tesla, Tom Petty, Tommy Lee, Velvet Revolver, Joe Walsh, Weezer, The White Stripes. I hate rap and I hate country.
D.)I'd have to say that Mexican food is my favourite. I like all types of food really. The only Italian food I like is Fettucini Alfredo. If you really want to get my attention, then just make me some good ole fashioned Alfredo. I'll be yours forever.

The six things I could never do without

My sanity, my fishing pole, Axe body gel, properly spoken English, tea (flavoured or unflavoured, hot or iced.)

I spend a lot of time thinking about

God. And not how good God is. Ask me about it if you really want to know.

I also spend alot of time thinking about the past. My past haunts me, but I find solace thinking about it.

Where my life is leading me. What will I be doing in five years. Now that I have something to live for, or now that I know I'll live past the age of 25 I better get started on planning a life.

On a typical Friday night I am

Usually sitting at home. I go out on Saturday nights.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I am very self concious about my private life. I hold secrets that I will take to the grave with me. However if you stick it out long enough for me to warm up to you, then I will trust you enough to tell you anything that you ask of me. If you want to know more, I'm always on AIM.

MonteCristo TDU is my AIM account.

Plus, Anna Farris is hot, I like Big & Rich, and I like the movie "The Princess Bride"

You should message me if

I would be surprised if anyone messages me at all. However, if you do message me it will be of your own accord, and that will justify any reasons that you have.