Ok some of this is a little old, and I need to redo it. A lot was actually written fairly early after I split from an ex. So if that explains anything there you go. In fact she helped write it so it would be the true me.

i AM Me ... Active & Healthy I go to the gym somewhat regularly. I try and make it 2+ times a week... I have been doing more of the Yoga & Pilate's classes right now. I also Love getting into the Hot Tub, sauna, or steam bath when I can.

I am an outdoors person. I like to liberate my toes being barefoot in the grass or with mud squishing between the toes, when I can't go barfuss, I put flip flops or converse Chuck Taylor All Star's on my feet... that is unless I am doing something special. For instance, I like playing a sport just for fun, and usually sign up for a summer league soccer, Ultimate Frisbee, volleyball. I like to camp, go on float trips or a hike, horseback riding. Even park a little farther from the door sometimes. Road trips, new cities, and just going off the beaten path. Not always being a couch potato. I do like to Cuddle. Sometimes that means going to a club or show.

I prefer warmth to cold. Massages giving and receiving. I like haunted houses, Halloween and stuff. I've worked a major haunted house for 7 seasons. Roller coasters and trips to outer space are nice too.

Family is important, and I participate often, but friends and my social "acquaintances" show me support and are special to me. I like bargains and shopping, but not necessarily buying. If I have the time I'll sit there for an hour just looking rather than spending. I guess its for a bargain, but I don't generally just buy because something was a bargain.

Living life fully.

I think the 10 principles of burning man are the bomb. They help make it a live for the moment artsy community. I have grown to mostly hate commercial festivals. I have even been to 3 regional burns a total of 6 times between them, and hope for 2 new burns this year. I am making an effort and doing locally responsible stuff. Like learning poi, drumming, camping, gifting, etc.

First FridaysHUGGING, cuddling or snuggling, Kissing, Passion. Ok everyone seems to put sex, I must say Foreplay is often better. Ok sex is great but there is more to life you got to experience too. I have to balance life or become a nympho. Yea, I've been around...

back rubs, solving problems, investigating, figuring things out, computers, being there, back rubs,reflexology, bdsm, Shibari, teaching, learning, eating--though I am skinny, exploring

I tend to be quiet at first. If I am comfortable I'll open up after a while. Not often in the same day.

I am bad at these things. I tend to live in the moment more than remember the details of movies, books, and music. I also find something to like most things I come across. Perhaps I like too much, but the way I look at it I like variety

Movies: Chick Flicks, Horror, Animated, Comedy, etc. Examples: What Dreams May Come, Princess Bride, Labyrinth, Finding Nemo, the original Texas Chainsaw Massacre, SAW .. , Clockwork Orange, Hedwig and the angry itch, short bus.

Music: Depends on who I am with, but I need variety. Country, Beat such as house, psy, trance, techno, electronica, and even industrial, goth. I also like Indie Rock,and almost anything else I am not necessarily one of those louder the better kinda guys. I don't keep my radio tuned to thinks like like soft, easy listening, classical, or ear drum bursting. Unless I am working then work generally requires I go for peaceful and relaxing. Cash as in Johnny sums it up

Foods:I eat it all. I take mis-orders as a surprise, and a way to try something else. I like ethnic foods (Chinese, Thai, Mexican, French, Mediterranean/Mideastern/Indian/Pakistani), Junk food (ok I avoid it, but splurge), Meat and Potatoes (esp Rare...bloody steak), the vegan meals are also wonderful (Eden Ally Restaurant is great)(we also have vegan pot lucks), casseroles, leftovers, Pizza, BBQ, hmmm if you put it in front of me I'll finish it think freegan. toes Mac n' (cheese/hamburger/etc.) -- I am bad and have bad streaks, but try to be good i.e. no white stuff. Not easy when you're alone. But no candy, sugar, etc is easy when you're alone....I buy real food.

I believe in balance, and letting others have there own views.

The basic 5 (physical-H20/air/food/etc., emotional, security, self fulfillment, etc), Sanity, touch, movement, stuff, warmth (damn I hate the cold... love the snow but not the cold)

How these questions on here are all yes or no. Hey why cant I be somewhere in the middle or fluctuating based on mood or something else going on?

busy.... Actually its weird. I go out more on a non-Friday/Saturday the drama to non-drama ratio is way too high. Either that or I just got antsy for an event for the weekend and went out anyway only to be too worn out the the weekend.

I am varied and diverse. I like goth ideals and people. I like piercings, but don't have any right now. I might be a little bit of a redneck too. I love the Carnie crew and Anarchists too. (While there are many cool and hot abercrombie and fitch, high heel, etc people, I find them to be too high maintenance and drama filled....prove me wrong, but don't get me wrong, I'll do anything for the right person.

hmmm. I am xxxxxxx than most think, and when people I date find out they love it. I have a toy chest. Most people think I may be gay....I am just comfortable, and why should all the girls have the fun.

Ok that was not one "Thing", but hey it was kinda private. Wanna know more just ask...

p.s. I must state that I do have aspie tendencies.... (ask) the biggest thing you'll notice is I may put my foot in my mouth, be reserved, or something

Pick two or more: You are casual, free living, fun loving, earthy, healthy, active, down to earth, tomboy, tink, goth, geek, alternative, aspie, like rope, or don't wear a bunch of makeup all the time but can dress up... like its a carnival or what ever. Oh and if you are a Betty Paige or you want an amazing massage professional or just for fun... Just let me know before hand what your motives are so I know where to keep it.