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monkeyqueen9

36 / F / straight / Single

Denver, Colorado

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Ethnicity
White, Other, Undeclared
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other and very serious about it
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am intense, fierce, and ecclectic.

My Self-Summary

I'm a very spiritual woman. I'm always studying and researching, the history of civilization along side the evolution of religion. I love discussions on Life, the Universe and Everything.

Intensely independent, fierce about life, I hold myself to a higher calling and surround myself with like-minded people. I organize underground art events in Denver as my life's happiness.

I am not Christian, I follow a very nature-based path. It's a mix of Druidism, Warrior and Celtic-Shamanism - in the end though I consider myself to be a Paradoxical Nonconformist. However, being raised as a preacher's daughter within the Southern Baptist Convention - I am educated on Christianity and Judaism, their histories, their evolutions, their corruptions; it's one of my favorite topics within a debate.

I'm not a celebrity hound at all, I must warn you though, I am a huge fan of the Crash Test Dummies. I think Brad Roberts is a genius. This is one of the few superfluous things in my life I will not compromise on. I listen to these guys everyday.

What I’m doing with my life

Traveling anywhere and everywhere. Fostering with a few friends a new movement of self-awareness, growth and revolution of the psyche within the communities in Denver, CO. Research, research, research...vision quests, teaching meditation, challenging myself and others to clean house and nurture new healthier growth of the self. I'm currently part of a loose artist collective in Denver and gettng ready for our next event Leaping Man!

I’m really good at

Making people feel welcome, loved and nutured. I adore cooking and entertaining, volunteering within my community. The performing arts is my forte in life. I'm getting better at sketching and painting. I'm a dancer and a DJ, I'm new at djing psytrance, but getting better all the time. I'm beginning to learn welding and take up metal sculpting. Basically, I'm pretty damned good at anything I put my mind to - unless it has to do with mundania aka the corporate world or maths. God, I wish I could get mathematics, it'd make my life at least a bit easier.

The first things people usually notice about me

Characteristically: that I'm sweet, kind and generous.

Physically: My face, hair and bust...I'm a curvy gal with long red dreads, big brown eyes, blue dots for eyebrows and a redheads complexion. Though I'm told that I can be pretty intimidating when I'm uncomfortable.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Sigh, I have done this too many times already and it would take too long.

My favorite author died in 2005 year: Jack L Chalker, you are missed my friend.

I'd have to say, Across the Universe is my newest favorite movie.

Music? Crash Test Dummies, psytrance, classic rock (like Fleetwood Mac, Bowie, Don Henley, Jimi, Janis, Jim Morrison, Moody Blues, Pink Floyd...etc.)Ambient, Talking Heads, Ween, Captured By Robots...the list goes on and on and on...I can't even think of it all.

Food: american puddings, custards, flan, tiramisu, sloppy burritos, primerib, pork! *bacon,bacon,bacon!* mmmmmmm...I'm hungry now.

The six things I could never do without

Books

People

Self-Expression

Tools (with which do do crafts and paint, I'd go crazy without something creative to do.)

Music

Dancing

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Life, the Universe and Everything. The mysteries of the universe, quantum physics vs metaphysics, the expansion of the mind within the evolution of the species. Our history, what we are still repeating and what we've seemed to get over. What makes people tick and react the way they do. druid, epistemology, Crash Test Dummies, primatology, etymology, anthropology, theology

On a typical Friday night I am

Typical? what's that? I'm way too busy doing, the Universe knows what, to have a typical night - any night.

There are crazy all-night parties, mountain snowcamping, craft nights, movie nights, stay home and read nights, go out and do art, go to gatherings, counseling folks to help with healing and meditation. Building big art projects, organizing events, Burning Man, throwing underground parties, learning how to dj better - it's a neverending quest that one, learning new ways to express what's in my head on a daily basis.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

If you ask, I'll answer honestly. I'm quite blunt at times, though I try to be tactful and not be mean about anything if I can help it. I don't care what it is, I don't hide anything I do. Now, if it is an offensive question - my answer will be "That was an offensive question. Would you like to try again or give up now?"

You should message me if

You are fierce, honest and brave. I have friends of all types, colors, shapes and sizes. My closest friends and those I date are intelligent, strong willed, independent, creative and proactive towards participating in life. If you think this is you, go for it. Oh and I'm terrible at small talk, throw me a topic for a good discussion and you'll have me hooked.

By the way, I Hate being cybered or asked to "hook up" - keep your horndog, undisciplined propositions away from my IM. Period. If you can't think of anything more interesting to say than "I want you, let's hook up" don't waste my time or yours. If you don't think you can handle an all night shamanic ceremony of endurance with me, don't have what it takes to realize your dreams or even say, want to find out who I am truly first - look somewhere else. (not that you would have to do an endurance ceremony, but it's nice to think you'd be willing to try it.