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ladykinbote

27 / F / bisexual / Seeing someone

Decatur, Georgia

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 3" (1.60m).
Body Type
Curvy
Looking For
New friends, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am geeky, obsessive, and wonky.

My Self-Summary

I graduated from college a few years ago (with a major in English and minors in Women's and Asian Studies, most useless degree ever!) and I'm scared out of my pants about having to act like a grown-up now. See, my pants are all the way over there.

A few words of warning about me and dating ('cause c'mon, no one's here for the punch & pie): I think casual dating is silly. I like to be pretty good friends with people before I have make-outs with them. I'm highly paranoid about letting new people get to know me. That means that I do not want to meet you in person. Hard to believe, I'm sure, but I encourage you to make a belief effort!

You've met me at a very strange time in my life. Be considerate of that, and I, in turn, will refrain from dispensing nutpunches.

What I’m doing with my life

Editing for a medical journal, missing the kids I knew in Florida, rocking out in my car, being in an actual relationship for once, delighting in the weirdness of my friends & family, dreaming of the day that I'll own furniture not made of particleboard, and questing for ever-increasing fabulousness.

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm not tall, I laugh at everything, and I have the boobs that ate Manhattan.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I tend to like silly sci-fi & horror, dark comedy, schlock, clever use of language, genre-bending, gender-bending, and stuff created by crazy women; The Fifth Element, Bradbury's Something Wicked This Way Comes, Beagle's The Last Unicorn, the Silent Hill game series, things published by Vertigo comics, Buffy & most other things Whedon, The Big Lebowski, Moulin Rouge, and Titus are a few of my favorite things. I also dig musicals and old cookbooks, have been known to rock out to stuff by artists like Fiona Apple and Flogging Molly, and am an absolute fiend for pad thai, berries (including tomatoes and eggplants), and most other edible things that are fresh and tasty.

Currently obsessing over: The Coming Storm, Buffy Season 8, and Sex and the City. p.s. I am NOT a Charlotte kthx.

The six things I could never do without

Caffeine, food every three hours or so, intraweb access, friends to squee over dorky stuff with, dorky stuff, notebook & pen

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Zombies, sex, finances, baked goods, how totally awesome light is, characters who argue with each other a lot secretly boinking behind the scenes.

On a typical Friday night I am

Grabbing dinner & drinks somewhere, catching a movie, and/or generally geeking out with friends. Possibly even sleeping! Under ideal circumstances I'd be playing Halo or pretending to be able to dance at an 80's night.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Occasionally I'm an alien being called HYPERCOLR! (the exclamation point is an important part of the name), friend of the Killer Robots, assistant to Pleasurebot5000, and promotions extraordinaire.

You should message me if

You're bored? Or if you understand that the world would be awesomer if it were socially acceptable to use plasma grenades to end unpleasant conversations, or if you never really grew out of playing dress-up and are comfortable with that. I dunno. I guess if you're geeky and looking for a new casual friend.

I turned off woos, suckah. I've got complete faith in you as a human to have something more interesting to say than "woo."

You probably shouldn't message me if: you're going to take it personally if I don't happen to feel like answering/chatting with/hanging out with you zomfg immediantly, or possibly at all ever. If you can't understand my needing time and space to myself, OR that answering email from strangers on a social site probably isn't my super-highest priority in life, you probably wouldn't like me, and, more pivotally, I really wouldn't like you.