Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
The most important thing for you to know is that I'm married and
not interested in anything but new friends. If you think you're
irresistible though, feel free to let me prove you wrong.
I try to be nice, but I don't always succeed. If that's not OK with
you, don't worry, there are lots of nice people in the world.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working and enjoying life. I work at an energy efficiency
consulting firm, consulting with builders about green building
programs such as LEED and BIG and working with public utilities to
provide energy efficiency rebates for new home builders. I manage
my own (small) department.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Creating things, debating, role playing, writing, insulting,
problem-solving. I also like to disrespect your autonomy. It's
basically my favorite.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People like to ask about my heritage, most of them being completely
unable to tell 'what I am.' It's great watching people try to
wrestle with a PC way to ask me about my race. Upon first meeting
me, people often think I'm very cold or cruel--until they get used
to my sense of humor. It grows on you. And of course people note my
height, since I'm pretty short.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
At the risk of sounding girly and immature, my favorite book is
", by Peter S. Beagle. It's timeless. I also really like
the "Song of Ice and Fire" series, though the last 2 books were
subpar in my opinion. My favorite movies are "Spirited Away",
"Tampopo" and "Hero." The Red Hot Chili Peppers are my absolute
favorite band, but I also love OK GO, TOOL/APC, and Cake. That list
is always changing. As for food... I love rich, complex flavors
like truffle or bone marrow and light, interesting ones like
lavender or cardamom. But not raw tomatoes. Ever, ever, ever.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Showers, food, water, shelter, stimulating conversation, and my
husband. In no particular order. If there were an option #7, I
think I'd have to put video games.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no such thing as a typical Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Um. Nothing. I'll tell you things if I like you.
You should message me if
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If you still want to, obviously. I may or may not get back to you,
but that's of no consequence so you may as well. I also play DnD
3.5, and sometimes I'm looking to add new people to my group. Even
if not, it's fun to talk about.
Please do not message me if you are looking for a relationship
or someone to flirt with. I'm married to the man I love and I
assure you, I am not even remotely interested in anyone else. If
you want to hook up, seek someone else (unless you love rejection).
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