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AaronJJ

25 / M / straight / Seeing someone

Monmouth Junction, New Jersey

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am kind, emotional, and reserved.

My Self-Summary

At the risk of this profile being too long, I'll simply say that I'm rather emotional and reserved, can come across as aloof since I'm a bit cynical of society, but am generally a kind and caring person, especially to anyone who appreciates me for my more introvspective, thoughtful, loving nature. The rest of this profile shall consist of some profiles that might explain me better and key words that describe me.

Personality speaking, I am an INFJ. Read about me here:

http://www.personalitypage.com/INFJ.html

Ennagramically speaking, I am a 4 - The Individualist. Read about me here:

http://www.enneagraminstitute.com/TypeFour.asp

Both sum me up as a person rather well.

Aaron's key words:

wonderful heart, kind, sweet, funny, adorable, lovely, heart of gold, wicked mind, caring, cute, awesome, cheeky, interesting, INFJ, shy, thoughtful, introspective, smart, creative, kind, sweet, caring, dependent, lethargic, nonsuperficial, love, Christianity, Deist, liberal, logical, deep conversations, emotional, vulnerable, affectionate, late bloomer, intimate, heart, perfectionist, methodical, skinny, sensitive, cute, thin,kindness, caring, compassion, reserved, goofy, sarcastic

My YouTube profile: http://www.youtube.com/profile?user=AJMcFly

My Best Stuff in the World profile: http://www.thebeststuffintheworld.com/profile/ajmcfly

What I’m doing with my life

Hoping to become a writer. And attending Rutgers college.

I’m really good at

Writing! And procrastinating, but having everything work out in the end.

Also, giving advice and showing people that I care and making them feel loved.

The first things people usually notice about me

I guess my eyes? I usually get nice comments on them!

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Oz Books, Ethan Frome, Lucky Man, To Kill A Mockingbird, Jan Eyre

Movies: Back to the Future Trilogy! Lost in Translation, Terminator 2, Ghost, The Wedding Singer, lots of others ...

Music: Linkin Park, Green Day, Disney songs (LOL, that's really geeky of me, isn't it?), lots of others - I like all sorts of music from pop to rock! Blink-182, Beatles, Oasis, Goodnight Nurse, McFly, Jimmy Eat World ...

Food: Erm, is it weird that I don't really care about food? I do have a sweet tooth and really like chocolate! Yum! And I became a vegetarian recently. I would have probably died in a hunter gatherer society. I'm one of those weird guys who doesn't like to see thing get killed.

TV Shows: The Office, House, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Daily Show, Colbert Report, South Park (although last season was kind of crappy), Futurama, first 3 seasons of Family Guy, the new Doctor Who, NBA basketball, especially Nets, I Love Lucy, MST3K, older Simpsons, Seinfeld, Friends ...

I also feel the need to mention that cheeky is quite possibly my favorite word. But I've recently become fascinated by lots of British slang that's not used in America.

My favorite color is red. It is the bestest.

The six things I could never do without

I'm going to change this to the six things I really like having in my life atm:

Family (annoying as they can be a times, often they are my only solace)/friends, computer/internet (Jeez, I am addicted to this thing), iPod (singing out loud is fun), imagination, chap stick (I am a chap-head), hope (pushes me forward on my worst days).

I'd add love, because it's so important to me, but it turns out I can live without it.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

The future. If I'm ever going to get that love stuff I'm looking for.

Recently my friend has gotten me looking into Christianity. I had always believed it was a bunch of bullcrap, but I've wavered and come to believe it. I don't feel the need to push it on other people, though, as I'm still trying to figure it out, and religious preference doesn't mean much to me, as I've straddled both sides of the fence. I would never attend church though. I don't like being preached at. No siree.

On a typical Friday night I am

Doing absotutely nothing.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I've never really had a girlfriend. I know, tis lame. I'm really not all that bad looking (think I'm rather cute) and though I'm not a manly type, I think I'm a really great guy. So I'm not sure what the deal is. I've felt really rejected in life which may have lowered my self-confidence. Though I'm shy and not a great public speaker, I do believe in myself and am determined to find someone who sees the good things I see in myself. So I don't really have any desire to not be shy, as I think it's a great quality to have.

In short, I like myself, it's the rest of the world that seems to have a problem with me! Le sigh.

You should message me if

I try not to discriminate against anyone who takes the time to message me, but you should probably only do so if you think we have some stuff in common. If you're shy, sweet, caring, heartfelt, etc, I would absolutely lurve to talk with you, so drop me a line. I tend not to respond to messages that are just one line and might not reply if I feel pressured to be interested from the getgo. I'd rather be friends first, and I have no problem talking to anyone who is only interested in friendship. I love my friends to bits and would not object to having more if there's no romantic interest.

But don't be shy. I won't bite ... hard! ;)