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Bethan24

29 / F / straight / Single

Caerphilly, United Kingdom

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 4" (1.62m).
Body Type
Full figured
Looking For
New friends, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and very serious about it
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Clerical / Administrative
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), French

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My Self-Summary

Hello. I'm a Welsh Witch who has recently ended a ten year relationship and been subsequently forced to move back to Wales with my parents. I am about to start and administrative position at a housing charity. My main ambition is to save enough to get my on place in Canterbury, where I went to university. My multifarious interests include psychology (I am a graduate psychologist), anthropology,((vampires)), role-play-gaming, ebaying, scifi, fantasy, horror, especially Terry Pratchett, Neil Gaiman, Charlaine Harris Jane Austen, etc etc. I also write my own fiction. I hope to write for kids someday. I love anything weird and wonderful. I've been a practising witch for 15 years. I used to run my university pagan society and now help others starting off on their path when they cross mine. I'm a nice person, a bit crabby sometimes, but then I'm a Cancer. I have a wicked sense of humour. I also think I should rule the world. Dislikes include hypocrisy, infidelity, people who use text talk in e-mails, unrepentant morons, hate criminals and the unneccessarily whiny.

What I’m doing with my life

Mostly licking my wounds and feeling sorry for myself as I've just split up with my fiancé.

I've had various jobs, mostly involving admin, teaching or healthcare. My new job will involve providing customer support to clients of a housing association. What I really want to do is write novels.

I’m really good at

Writing, reading books very quickly. Remembering vast tracts of trivia, diagnosing odd psychological ailments, languages,divination (i.e. tarot, palmistry, etc.), roleplaying, looking after people, being creative, being smug, sarcasm, drawing like a small child, giving advice, being a witch.

The first things people usually notice about me

My walk. I've been told I stride, as if into battle. I've got long blonde hair and green eyes. Slightly odd wardrobe. I do not fear colour.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

a)Lots of these. Anything by Jane Austen, Terry Pratchett, Neil Gaiman, Charlaine Harris, trashy vampire soft porn (e.g. Anita Blake), Lynsey Davis' Marcus Didius Falco series. I love children's books like Harry Potter, the His Dark Materials series by Philip Pullman, Garth Nix. Generally, odd, fantastical books.
b)Aliens, the Directors Cut, The Princess Bride, Lord of the Rings, Star Wars, Spaceballs, Harry Potter, Southpark the movie, Jay & silent Bob films, When Harry Met Sally, Love Actually, lots of daft horror films, lots of soppy rom-coms and anything scifi/fantasy. Except that Dungeons&Dragons film with Jeremy Irons. That was crap.
c)Katie Melua, Sarah McLaughlin, Tori Amos, Nirvana, Foo-fighters, Metallica, Kate Bush, Sisters of Mercy, U2, Greenday, Billie Holliday, opera, piano/violin classics.
d) Chocolate, mexican food, italian food, a nice steak, my mother's xmas dinner, long island ice teas,champagne, coffee. More chocolate.

The six things I could never do without

Books, my mum, my friends, simple pleasures, complex pleasures, Mother Earth.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Faith, philosophy, love, magic, morality, why people are such b*****ds/so stupid/so annoying, politics (see previous), the nature of life and being, poetry, literature, music, art, how "cheese" is a funny word and how I will go about taking over the world. I also spend a lot of time daydreaming about various fantasies, often involving acts of personal heroism or revenge on hated enemies (hee hee).

On a typical Friday night I am

Currently avoiding the crappy soaps and Strictly spin offs my parents feel the need to watch.

Probably reading with a nice glass of wine.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Nothing. Things are only embarrassing if you tell people, or allow them to live after they find out. I've already told you all there is to know, pretty much, including being a member of a minority religion that people like to burn and the whole world domination thing. Perhaps my sad, geeky knowledge of vampires and suchlike?

You should message me if

You want to. Particularly if you are interested in Paganism or any of the above authors. I'm a fairly friendly person. It's always nice to hear from new people, unless they are creepy, stalker types. I warn you, I'm a biter!

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