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40 • Dallas, TX • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 18–42
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Feb 1
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
- Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
I suppose if you really want a better feel for who I am and what I believe, you could check out my journal entry that points you to my blog (http://maxhedrm.montebellopark.com/blog/). That might amuse you for a little while. Probably not long though...especially since it's been way too long since I updated it. :^)
I guess maybe I should add something here to comment on the .. uh .. sexual generosity that my question & test results seem to indicate. I'll freely admit it, I enjoy sex, and I'm more than a bit adventurous in that regard. And I've had a lot. And to be honest, I see nothing wrong with that, especially since I'm on year 20 of having the stuff.
To me sex and love can be separate things. There are types of sex without love, just as there are types of love without sex. Though I do have to point out that the sex does tend to be better with someone that you have something more than lust for. Be that something friendship or love, the stronger the connection the better the sex can potentially be. Clear as mud?
I should also say that I am a queer, libertarian, atheist. Which, since I live in Texas, means I can't talk about politics with my friends and can't discuss religion with my coworkers.
I am geeky, purple, and addictive
Oh, & I've decided I definitely want a boyfriend, but that I am not looking for one. I find that the best things come by accident. :^)
Really, I'm probably the wrong person to ask though ... too close to the subject, so to speak.
(B.1) Movies: Harry Potter, Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy, anything by Pixar, Brokeback Mountain, other Sci Fi & queer stuff & who knows what else.
(B.2) Television: ALIAS, Queer as Folk, British Comedies, Doctor Who, Torchwood, Gossip Girl (guilty pleasure), Glee, Six Feet Under, Eureka, Warehouse 13, Farscape, Kyle XY, Vampire Diaries (more guilt), Being Human (UK version), Skins (also UK version) ... but I don't really watch much TV, what I do watch tend to be time shifted until it's available on Netflix.
(C) Music: A huge variety ... it all depends on my mood, like so much else.
(D) Foods: Almost anything.
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