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bdongray

47 / M / Straight / Married

Fremont, California

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has children
Pets
Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Sign Language (Poorly)

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I am fun-loving, innovative, and romantic.

My Self-Summary

Intelligent (but not elitist about it), enjoy music, walks or maybe cycling, watching movies and DVD optimistic, creative, good conversation.

I love to laugh and have been told I have a great smile.

Coming from England, I still have a British accent (even after 15 years). Think Hugh Grant.

I also go to BurningMan every year. It's held each year in the desert of North Nevada, near Gerlach, and they call the place Black Rock City. Almost 50000 people now having fun (it was about 20,000 when I first went). Lots of art, music, costumes, chatting, camping, sharing, gifting, and riding a bicycle!

What I’m doing with my life

Moved to the Bay area (California) in 2006.
I found someone here on OKCupid and we just married.
We live in Fremont.

I’m really good at

Most things to do with a computer (not into games though), playing music (with practice)!

The first things people usually notice about me

My smile, my eyes, my British accent.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Favorite books are the Hitchhikers Guide To The Galaxy series, but I am reading books on how to be good in relationships :-)
Favorite movies are Contact, Matrix, and Bill and Ted, and most SciFi.
I like most music, as long as it's not discordant, and no "unintelligible shouting" for lyrics.
On food, I love anything strawberry, eat fruit daily, a banana, apples, an orange. Chocolate is a treat, love it! But I know it's not exactly healthy, so it's rare. Maybe that makes it all that nicer next time!

The six things I could never do without

Never is such a strong word, I can do without many things I like, but technically I cannot do without eating, drinking, breathing, keeping warm but not too hot. I probably could do without shelter, but they also tell us that we can't.

What I would miss if I went away, is my eyesight, the Internet and email, music, conversation, human contact, finally, openness and honesty. Could you imagine if absolutely everyone was dishonest!?!

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Being a nice, good, and helpful person.
Burning man (but I'm not an obsessive) and it's fairly rare now (due to everything else going on in my life).

On a typical Friday night I am

At home, I don't end up going out that much, as most people want to go to noisy places (eg clubs, bars, etc), but I like conversation and a noisy place is no good to have a good chat. Similarly I have noticed when people have a party, it is common that the music is cranked up, which means conversation is difficult.
When I have a party, I don't want silence, but the music will be BACKGROUND.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I love long sensual night times with my lady (but it doesn't have to be at night).

You should message me if

You have a great smile, are kind and friendly to most people, and like to talk about mostly any topic.
If you are an open and honest person.