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chrysee-lib

30 / F / Gay / Single

Wichita, Kansas

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 3" (1.60m).
Body Type
Curvy
Looking For
New friends, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and very serious about it
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Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Unemployed
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am slightly egotistical, compassionate, and radically liberal.

My Self-Summary

my previous 'self-summary' demonstrated that i'm passonate and kinda angry. i see a world of injustice, and i get mad. so for the past few years, i've tried to change the world by becoming an activist. until recently, i was a very involved lgbt rights activist. but some recent decisions by other leadership drove me to resign. it was sad. and now i'm secretary of the county democratic party. but i'll fill the time by reading the interwebs and with a monthly column i am going to write for the liberty press.

i lost my job after the start of the new year, 'position eliminated'. i was there for most of 8 years. it was quite sad :( so now i spend my time trying to find a new job, crocheting, sewing, and making neaklaces to make extra money above unemployment. meh.

i'm a hippie at heart, treehugger, vegan, and rather hopelessly addicted to brain games. i'm mildy disabled; that's frustrating because it's not visable, suddenly becomes worse, and people just don't understand why i don't have the energy to keep up with them sometimes. i really don't want to get married, doubt i ever want to live together with someone, question if i want any sort of long-term relationship, wonder how i'll work in fostering children, and seek open relationships instead of being expected to keep blinders on. i'm an avouch athiest to the point where people expect either the church or me to spontaenously burst into flames when i walk in. i have a difficult time creating my own personal time. i forget sometimes to be a friend, but when i'm needed, i'm usually there.

What I’m doing with my life

going to the gym sometimes in an effort to maintain my health. i'm secretary of the county democratic party. i write a monthly political column for the liberty press. trying to keep my garden growing. and hanging out with friends sometimes!

I’m really good at

saying things with which people disagree. being a radical liberal who has to learn to bite her tongue (but only sometimes). non-sequitors, rambling, not completely thinking through everything i say, over-thinking everything i say.

The first things people usually notice about me

my red hair (whatever shade it might be) and my pale skin.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

a) the great gatsby, the house of mirth, the war on choice.

b) forbidden planet, the day the earth stood still, bound, a dog's breakfast

c) riotgrrrl, russian romantics, broque. tegan and sara own you. melissa mcclellen, erin smith band, the weekend, sleater-kinney, kristi martel, tuuli, flux ad, emilie autumn, fluke, alix olson.

d) pizza. chocolate. tofu.

e) (tv shows) stargate sg-1 & atlantis, the simpsons, futurama, family guy, american dad, burn notice, doctor who. i need to watch less tv.

The six things I could never do without

1- friends who still like me in spite of very different opinions. 2- debates. 3- me computer(s) hooked up to the internet. 4- lots of food. mmm ... food. 5- conversation. 6- something stimulating. somehow. 7- saussie cat!

I spend a lot of time thinking about

theory, politics, sex, work, idiots.

On a typical Friday night I am

hanging with friends or just watching tv :)

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

i'm scared shitless most of the time. no matter how strong i appear, i'm scared.

You should message me if

you're looking for a deep yet weird conversation, have questions about deep yet weird things, just want someone to hang with, or just looking for some fun. or hang out on my lj at http://www.livejournal.com/users/ladyofthenut or twitter @chrysee