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dancedragon

27 / F / Gay / Seeing someone

Somerville, Massachusetts

Her Details

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 5" (1.65m).
Body Type
Jacked
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Children
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Russian (Poorly), Latin (Poorly)

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My Self-Summary

Okay, want to know about me? I'm female, white, middle-class, liberal, queer...get the idea? I like having labels, they're fun!

What else can I say about me?

I grew up in a wonderful house in Takoma Park, sheltered by oak trees and strong liberal values. My family and friends were as supportive and stable. I jumped in leaf piles in the fall, made snowforts in the winter, splashed through mud puddles in the spring and caught fireflies in the summer. My high school was a haven for kids who could fit in if they wanted to but decided that it wasn't worth their time. I liked it there.

My life is also full of music. Mostly the kind you can make yourself in a field somewhere with no amplification necessary. Just give me my mandolin and a quiet spot to play and I'm happy.

Basically I've got places to go but I'm in no hurry to get there. I'm an optimist at heart despite moments of cynicism.



I am confident, intricate, and vocal

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What I’m doing with my life
I can now officially call myself an alumna of Oberlin College, though I'm not sure exactly where that'll get me. I spent the last four years studying biology so that someday I can go to grad school and learn about marine biology. I'm going to be a fish expert! Other things I'd like to do include go to the UK for a while, and then live in the woods with a labratory and a labrador retriver and a person that I am in love with.

At the moment, however, I am working at a completely awesome independent coffee shop. Learing all there is to learn about how to serve up a nice cup of coffee, or sandwich, or pastry. I am perfecting my latte making skills.

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I’m really good at
Getting myself in trouble. Getting myself out of trouble. Women's lacrosse. Contra dancing. Drawing dragons. Hugging. Scrabble.

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My favorite books, movies, music, and food

books: Invisible Man, Ender's Game, Adam's Ark, 1984, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Gallaxy, Phantom Tollbooth.

movies: Full Metal Jacket, The Point, Princess Bride, The Holy Grail, The Lion King, Finding Nemo, The Matrix, My Life as A Dog.

music: pretty much anything relatively folky, Nightingale, Ani, Indigo Girls, Alasdair Frasier, The Weepies, Deb Talen, Domino, Lori McKenna, Fiddler's Bid, Rusted Root.

food: dark chocolate, cheese, tomato-saucey things like lasagna, burritos/tacos, bagels, curry dishes, potatoes, dark roast coffee.

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The six things I could never do without
music, friends, health, family, bike, books.

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I spend a lot of time thinking about
My identity, mostly in terms of my gender and sexuality. How I interact with others based on my identity and how their identities influence my own. Language and labels. Sex and bondage. What I will eat for breakfast/lunch/dinner. When I will next get to take a nap.

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On a typical Friday night I am
Working the closing shift at the coffee shop.

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The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a little bit scared about all the changes happening in my life.

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I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 22-46
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
You want to get to know me better or you're just bored. You've heard of Nightingale, Domino, Alasdair Frasier, or Fiddler's Bid. You can make a roux. You can make latte art.

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