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I’m looking for
- Ages 25–49
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Today – 10:10am
- 5′ 6″ (1.68m)
- Body type
- Full figured
- Mostly anything
- Other, but not too serious about it
- Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
- Dropped out of space camp
- Rather not say
- Rather not say
- Open relationship
- Strictly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently)
I contain multitudes; I'm not terribly sorry that most of those multitudes are variations on the theme of cranky, perverted dwarf.
I like to sleep late, I'm a little clumsy, and I'm a bit of a crybaby.
(that's a reference)
(but I do tear up at the weirdest things)
keywords: nerdy; queer; enby/non-binary (they/them pronouns please); poly/open
I am FUNEMPLOYED as of 1/15 and spend many of my days off with girlfriend Annaroosje, who, wisely, has hidden her profile from straight people. I can't even view her profile at this point. we date separately and, while not averse to unicorns, are not in search of one.
(people tell me I have pretty lips and eyelashes)
books: Iain M. Banks; Jack Vance; Jo Walton; Ursula K. LeGuin; Lois McMaster Bujold; Catherynne M Valente; Kim Newman; my Goodreads (recently purged for 2015)
comics: Love and Rockets; King City; Multiple Warheads; Finder; Stray Bullets; Saga; Shutter; Ultimate (Comics) Spider-Man; Frank; Jim; Percy Gloom;
movies: Better Off Dead; Jacob's Ladder; Pump Up The Volume; Bring It On; Pitch Perfect; Captain America (1 & 2); Chungking Express;
shows: Kamen Rider Gaim; Kamen Rider Fourze; the West Wing; Steven Universe; Gravity Falls; Bravest Warriors; Bee & Puppycat;
music: The Mountain Goats; Godspeed You! Black Emperor; Kate Bush; Carla Bozulich; Mogwai; Lush; Belle & Sebastian; Tom Waits; Nick Cave; PJ Harvey; Siouxsie Sioux; Wu-Tang; Mr. Lif; my Last.fm
food: Korean; Japanese; Ethiopian; Indian; Chinese; Vietnamese;
games: Lords of Waterdeep and other worker placement games; 13th Age; Over the Edge; Legend of Zelda; Chrono Trigger; Civilization; Alpha Centauri; Don't Starve; FTL; UnReal World; Saints Row (3 & 4); XCOM; Epic Spell Wars of the Battle Wizards: Duel at Mt. Skullzfyre; Monster Hunter 4 Ultimate;
podcasts: Selected Shorts; Ken and Robin Talk About Stuff; Welcome to Night Vale;
some things I'm gonna judge you for: Ayn Rand; the Big Bang Theory; "everything except rap and country"; non-medical aversion to vegetables; I'm-not-feminist-because-I-believe-in-equality; #gamergate
books with elves, spaceships, or space elves;
the option of a proper command line;
wet wipes, tbh
(but not all at once);
how to live more gently in an increasingly hostile world;
how do I gender (specifically, how do I agender/bigender);
communication & emotional openness in relationships, and other things at which I once thought I was pretty good;
there is a reference to another website in this profile, and while that website is, itself, highly problematic, if you get the reference, it may be indicative of some of my predilections and I'll give you my screen name if you ask;
my name sans hyphen dot tumblr dot com, the content of which is also indicative of some of my predilictions;
not so much "straight" as "mostly attracted to women and femmes";
shrooms changed/saved my life once, but only once
you value justice over equality;
your schedule is weird but flexible;
you have chocodiles and are willing to share;
keywords: nerdy; queer; femme; androgynous; enby/non-binary; poly/open; chocodiles
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