Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I believe in sex positive culture shared by adults with informed
consent through educational and risk aware fashions.
I believe in very open and honest communication with partners and
As such I can say I'm here seeking partners for protected sexual
and/or SM activities.
I specialize in various forms of SM as a Top/Dominant/Master and am
More about me NSFW: https://fetlife.com/users/2175423
You are also welcome to discuss consent with my other partners at
any time (ie I am not a married man sneaking around).
I am currently involved with one woman who is a long distance
partner in Canada and we've been seeing each other for a little
over a year and been friends years longer and we are both aware we
see other people.
I also have a large amount of SM partners that I don't engage in
sexual or other fluid bonding activity with.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I enjoy computers, BDSM, sex, and various forms of performance art.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Songwriting, poetry, bdsm, some computer and website stuff, many
artistic mediums, getting things done.
Some people think I'm funny sometimes... other people think I'm
terribly offensive sometimes.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Th first thing people usually ask about is my name (people tend to
notice), but that's not always the case.
Some people like my tattoos or my music or web stuff or my tastes
in this or that... depends on who you ask and how they know me I
suppose. I also spend a lot of time talking and educating about
consensual bdsm topics.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I mostly read on the internet. I'm not much of a "book"
person. When I do read long form, it's generally
TV Shows: Comedy.
Music: generally industrial, metal and goth type stuff.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
internet, sex, SM gear collection, Good times with friends,
personal growth and food/water/warmth. Coffee/caffeine is probably
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Seek ye not the truth, for the truth is in the journey and the
journey is the truth.
I'm also a far larger fan of scientific explanation through
controlled double blind experiments over emotional reasoning and
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depends, my schedule shifts regularly and I always try to do
something fun and exciting.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I strongly dislike removing cotton from pill bottles; it's
irrational and I'm OK with it.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're interested in someone with extensive BDSM topping and
dominance skills, and/or you think I'm attractive and want to meet
up for casual sexual encounters.
Of course any adult activities will need to be negotiated
thoroughly (if you don't know how I can show you), and sexual
activity will be protected at least from my end unless you're
producing up to date testing and specifically request otherwise.
Who are you looking for?
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