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MidtownNorseman

42 / M / Straight / Single

长春, China

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Virgo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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I am affectionate, mercurial, and droll.

My Self-Summary

I'm pretty happy with my life -

I quote Kevin Smith movies and John Hughes 80's coming-of-age flicks, know far too much about comic book superheroes, and enjoy board games. I listen to way too much 80's music.

I'm finally able to travel more, and I intend to take advantage of it.

I am a Christian, but I am also a Buddhist - and no, the two are not diametrically opposed.

What I’m doing with my life

UPDATE: China bound! Check my Journal!

I'm headed to the People's Republic to teach English as a Foreign Language. The pay is not great, but it's cheap to live there, and they provide the apartment, utilities, etc. I am really excited about this. This may lead to more travels, and hopefully I will get a book written about it.

Plus - international incident alert! My pal and I plan to toss Frisbees across the border into North Korea - take THAT, Kim Jong-Il!

I also write a bit, and consider myself a writer - it's the one career you can have and not actually have to produce. I'm also co-authoring/ghostwriting a book with my landlord, and hammering out a screenplay treatment about an overlooked Revolutionary War hero.

Recently, I discovered a talent for painting, and actually have two commissions in the pipeline - I'm as surprised as anyone about that... I am fascinated by Tibetan mandalas and enjoy creating my own - in a more permanent medium.

I'm also slaying some old demons, and learning to be an individual - not defined by who I am with or what I do for a living.

It would be nice to make some friends in a group setting, too. Book club, learning another language, board games. Still, I enjoy the one-on-one interaction, too.

I'm a complete comic book geek- I know Clark Kent's Metropolis street address, and can untangle the multiverse with the best of them (If you realize we live on Earth-Prime, I think we should meet!)

I’m really good at

Singing, writing, painting, cynical observations, kissing...and I am extremely good at oral sex.

and this

The first things people usually notice about me

Shoulders, voice, the fact that I constantly levitate about 2.5 inches above the ground

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

BOOKS: DC Comics, Heinlein, Asimov, Christopher Moore, China Mieville, Jeff Van der Meer, Neil Gaiman, Frank Herbert's DUNE series, the Gormenghast trilogy, Stephen King's Dark Tower series, Brian Lumley, HP Lovecraft, whatever I can get my hands on

MOVIES: Anything by Kevin Smith, Christopher Guest, or John Hughes; Breakfast Club, Office Space, Buckaroo Banzai, Will Ferrell, Steve Carrell, Dark Crystal, Labyrinth, Star Wars (the original three - not the tripe that came out more recently)

MUSIC: 80's pop and new wave, Christina Aguilera, Ashlee Simpson (yes, I know), covers and mash-ups, Eminem, Billy Joel,

TV: Heroes, Red Dwarf, Firefly, Buffy, Mythbusters

FOODS: Sushi, barbecue, Krystal, chicken tandoori, cheeseburgers, red beans and rice, and the magical po-boys you can only get in New Orleans.

The six things I could never do without

Diet Coke

my iPod

An internet connection

Sex

cheeseburgers

LOLcats

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Anarchy: "A rational anarchist believes that concepts such as 'state' and 'society' and 'government' have no existence save as physically exemplified in the acts of self- responsible individuals. He believes that it is impossible to shift blame, share blame, distribute blame . . . as blame, guilt, responsibility are matters taking place inside human beings singly and nowhere else . But being rational, he knows that not all individuals hold his evaluations, so he tried to live perfectly in an imperfect world . . . aware that his effort will be less than perfect yet undismayed by self-knowledge of self-failure." --Bernardo de la Paz, The Moon Is A Harsh Mistress,

Also, the golden ratio (1.618033) and Fibonacci numbers - and their relation to art, architecture, nature and spirituality ...

Well, all that, but mostly sex

On a typical Friday night I am

doing something atypical.

Who the hell am I kidding, I am usually in bed by 10 reading.

I'm going to change that starting NOW...

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I've had two pieces of erotica purchased and published online - and each under a female pseudonym.

I am quite the cunning linguist, and I am a gentleman - the lady ALWAYS comes first

You should message me if

PLEASE message me if... - you understand why a shaggy-dog "I'm my own grandpa" joke is one of the greatest sci-fi novels ever - you consider yourself a Browncoat and screamed when they killed Wash - you identify with "Ace" Rimmer more than his holographic counterpart - you have ever dreamt of exploring Gormenghast - You are a female with a boundless imagination and an unquenchable libido. - You recognize the virtues of DC over Marvel. - You want to hang out, chat, or just make a new friend.