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31 / M / Straight / Single

Northampton, Massachusetts

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Fit
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra
Education
two-year college
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
Children
Has 1 child
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Speaks
English, Spanish (Poorly), C++ (Poorly)

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My Self-Summary
I'm a nature loving, roller derby playing, bike riding, ex-computer geek, regrettably ex-vegetarian, once upon a time musician, punk rock, photographer dad, uncomfortably employed as a CST and still dreaming about hiking the AT. On the surface anyway.... Digging deeper, I have occasional bouts of compulsive creativity when I have an uncontrollable urge to make something. It's resulted in a number of musical instruments, several boomerangs, costumes, shelves, and various other objects. Somewhat related to that compulsion, I am also a bit of a pack rat always trying to find space for various electronic devices, pieces of wood, and anything else that could be just what I need for something I haven't come up with yet.

Although I'm not actively looking for a relationship, I am always interested in meeting new people and am open to whatever may develop. I have a very smart, often hyperactive, 10 year old son who I see whenever my schedule allows. He lives with his mom (who I'm separated from but still on good terms with) near by so it's easy to get time with him.

I am scattered, open, and currently updating

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What I’m doing with my life
Roller Derby saved my soul and consumes my life. I've been skating for PVRDs Dirty Dozen for over a year and it's probably the best decision I've made. It gives my reckless tendencies a purpose, keeps me in shape, lets me get out all my aggression, and, of course, it's fun as hell.

I've settled in fairly well at my job doing in-store tech support for a major cell phone provider. Most of my day is spent trying to fix other people's problems and it's made me realize that working in customer service requires very nearly masochistic tendencies. I still do prefer customers that don't treat me like crap, though.

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I’m really good at
Producing random bits of useless knowledge

Low light photography

Taking things apart (and putting them back together)

Making a mess (see previous line)

Spotting the singer's/guitar player's girlfriend in the crowd at a show

Getting distracted

Listening (whether or not I'm supposed to)

Finding a song to express how I feel

Trying out new things

Feeling awkward

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The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm either friendly and entertaining or awkward and socially inept, depending on the day.

That I'm somewhere they didn't expect me to be.

Not really... I'm sure now what people notice first is my 'stache. Like it or hate it, people definitely notice. Pictures will be coming but I'm two years into a "Dali" for the curious.

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My favorite books, movies, music, and food
(A)Walden, The Elecric Koolade Acid Test, Good Omens, Boneshaker, Eastern Standard Tribe, Petersons Guide to Edible Wild Plants, Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, plus everything I've read by these authors: Ray Bradbury, Robert Anton Wilson, J.R.R. Tolken, Douglas Adams, Bill Bryson, Clifford Stoll, A.A. Attanasio

(B) High Fidelity, Pi, Lord of the Rings Trilogy, Go Further, Garden State, Monty Python (everything), V for Vendetta, SLC Punk, Shortbus O Brother Where Art Thou, Blues Brothers, KM0, Dot the I, A Life Less Ordinary, Run Lola Run, Big Fish, My Wife is an Actress, City of Lost Children, Sleepy Hollow, Office Space.. In general, foreign films, indie films, intelligent comedies, sci fi (good and bad), basically anything that makes me think.

(C) punk, rock, folk, jazz, rockabilly/psychobilly, metal, ska, alternative, classical, plus small amounts of everything else. Random artists that come to mind: They Might Be Giants, Bad Religion, Dresden Dolls, Audioslave, Sasquatch and the Sick-a-billys, HUMANWINE Cherry Poppin Daddies, World/Inferno Friendship Society, Dead Kennedys, Johan DeMeij, The Nields, Cradle of Filth, Simon and Garfunkel, Lourds, Rusted Root, Jucifer, Dropkick Murphys, John Coltrane, Squirrel Nut Zippers... the list never ends.

(C) continued... Local and indie bands. What's better than watching a band that blows your mind? Hanging out with them at the bar, going to the after party, or laying down tracks in their side project. Some bands I see whenever I have the time: Swill Merchants, The Room, Space Captain, The Novels, Nude Black Glass, GBNE, Rane, The Next Extension, Us Against the Archers, School for the Dead, Worlds Greatest Dad, Rabbit Rabbit, and so many more .....

(D) Thai, Chinese, Indian, Sushi, Mexican, properly prepaired tofu, homemade cookies, rammen noodles. I used to be a vegetarian, slacked off because it doesn't work well with my lifestyle and I just like eating (good) meat.

(D) subcatagory - Drinks: highball, microbrews, anythimg from Stone brewery and Dogfish Head, red wine, PBR, dark ale, coffee, diet RockStar, Silk chocolate soymilk.

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The six things I could never do without
Not counting the basics for comfortable survival... The things that make life worthwhile are (in no particular order) my son, the great outdoors, artistic/personal expression, unique company, time to myself, roller derby and all that comes with it.

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I spend a lot of time thinking about
How something becomes "art" and why something ordinary is seen as art simply because it was done by someone famous. How I'm going to pay for all the film I still need to develop. What to do for a living. How to see in black and white. Whether there is any career I can be satisfied with for the long term.

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On a typical Friday night I am
When I'm lucky enough to not be stuck closing at work I'm probably roaming around downtown NoHo with my camera

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The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I want to believe in faeries but struggle with the extreme scientific improbability such a creature could exist.
I also enjoy musicals.

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I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20-42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
If you read all of this. If you're into roller derby, local music, hiking, photography, intelligent conversation, drunken conversation or geeking out. And definitely send me a message if you think you may have seen me somewhere before, because there is a good chance it was me.

If you have a high enemy percentage with me, meet me on Main St at high noon, Nerf guns at ten paces.

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