I work in web hosting technical support. I love taking care of a team, and fighting crime! Really, my heart was made for travel. There's no cable on the TV, no satellite dish on the roof - Netflix and Internet - that's how I get my West Wing, Doctor Who, and Torchwood fix. Right now my immediate family consists of three husbands, two children, and three cats. Don't woo me, even with promises of public transportation and vintage porn.

I used to identify as geek, but over the years it's become more apparent I'm a nerd and a geek groupie. Whaddya know?

I am polyamorous, weird, and softhearted

A big surprise to me - I'm a leader! Management is actually rewarding and fun. I'm an Inbound Call Center Supervisor. When I'm getting away from that, I enjoy SCA activities, travel, movies and reading.

I'm really good at taking care of people. It comes naturally. Problem is, who takes care of me? I organize things and people, and I make digital art. I'm good at taking care of myself, figuring things out, adapting.

That I'm human or a reasonable facsimile thereof. Depending on their orientation, they may also notice I have breasts.

Don't really have favorites, but here are a few beloved:

(A) A Deepness in the Sky, Vernor Vinge A Fire Upon the Deep, Vernor Vinge Outlander, Diana Gabaldon Voyager, Diana Gabaldon (B) Mohabbatein Fight Club (C) Mohabbatein soundtrack Krishna Das They Might Be Giants (D) sushi steak shepherd's pie hummus and tortilla chips

Uhm, air, food, water, shelter, clothing ... time? Really, this one is hard, because I've had to do without everything at some point, and managed just fine. What I really need - change. I cannot thrive in a stagnant situation. Oo! Also humor and perspective. Gotta have those.

Sex, orientation, gender, love, religion, economics, home improvement, auto mechanics, armageddon, tools, tool users, zombies, ghosts, aliens, space, time, partially hydrogenated soybean oil, high fructose corn syrup, fertility, mutation, evolution, animal behavior, psychology, pharmacology, semantics, deviant behaviors of all sorts. Uhm, other stuff, too.

Riding the train home from work.

That in spite of it all, I'm terribly socially awkward.

You're not interested in a response. I just checked my OKCupid mails and found stuff from the Pleistocene. Kind of late to respond now. I don't really use this site for anything. I hope you find who you're looking for. Pretty sure it's not me. Have a great week!