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teamnoir

48 / M / Straight / Single

Menlo Park, California

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White, Undeclared
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Overweight
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Dislikes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), C++ (Fluently), LISP (Fluently), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My Self-Summary
Into astrology, motorcycling, scuba, bridge, post-industrial shamanism, paganism, chaos magick, occasionally drumming, sometimes photography. NLP practitioner, master practitioner, and health practitioner. Tantra instructor. Bdsm instructor. Have been a certified hypnotherapist (hypnotherapy), but it isn't worth $60/yr to me.

You can also find me on friendster, livejournal, tribe, bondage.com, free-association, yahoo, and occasionally aim.

I am intense, spiritual, and communicative

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What I’m doing with my life
Working. Finishing up a book of my recent photography from Dickens Fair of window models for Dark Garden Corsetry. Dating. Playing. Cleaning house.

I'm a freemason, not the stuffy gynophobic American kind, but the French kind that women can join too. The kind that sometimes uses a blank book as their volume of sacred lore.

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I’m really good at
Techno-computer stuff. Trance. Direct interpersonal and online communications.

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The first things people usually notice about me
Blue eyes. "intensity". During "summer" months, a shaved face & head.

People tell me that I have a 10 foot bubble - from a distance, I'm often cold and intimidating, but from inside the bubble, I'm a warm, caring human being. So, uh... feel free to step in.

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My favorite books, movies, music, and food
I used to read a lot of scifi. Now I read a lot of internet discussion stuff instead. Terry Pratchett and Jonathan Carrol are favorites.

Current favorite movie: Lake Consequence. I watch a lot of movies, though, and tend to see all but the most insipid American releases, either in theatres or netflix. Previous favorite movies: Liquid Sky, Choose Me, Tommy.

Current favorite band: Recent discoveries: Girls Under Glass, Alabama 3, Razed in Black, Chemlab, She Wants Revenge, Sigur Ros, Covenant, Imperative Reaction, Interpol, Crystal Method, Rosetta Stone.

Current favorite food: pepperoni, mushrooms, black olive, & extra cheese pizza from "New York Pizza" in Palo Alto. Basic air popped popcorn comes a close second.

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The six things I could never do without
This one is tough. I've let it sit empty for years now. I want to believe that I can do without just about anything aside from the basics.

So... food, sleep, personal challenges, sunlight, time alone, and good, generative, life altering sex. (Not necessarily in that order).

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I spend a lot of time thinking about
Possibilities.

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On a typical Friday night I am
On a dinner and/or movie and/or play date. Otherwise sitting at home in social forums, playing computer games, or working on personal projects.

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The most private thing I’m willing to admit
How about... I have a small collection of Barbie(tm) dolls.

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I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 34-54
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
A) anything in my profile intrigues or puzzles you

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B) you enjoy chatting about life

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C) you practice any form of tantra or ecstatic ritual

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