The Doormat

You are uncomfortable getting close to others. You want emotionally close relationships, but you find it difficult to trust others completely. You don't believe you deserve very much, so you don't try very hard to win favor. You prefer to lie there until someone comes along to walk all over you. It's okay. You're used to being stepped on.

 

Fictional character with whom you might identify: Eponine (Les Miserables), Eeyore (Winnie the Pooh)

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Other Attachment Types:
Secure: The Unicorn  |  The Cuddleslut  |  The Free Agent
Preoccupied: The Cling Wrap  |  The Squid  |  The Insect
Fearful: The Doormat  |  The Leper  |  The Exile
Dismissing: The Hermit  |  The Stone  |  The Player
Confused: The Waffler

All possible test results

The Unicorn

You're a rare beast: A person nearly completely secure with yourself and with others. You're just as comfortable in long term relationships as you are single. You have a lot to offer anyone you cho... Read more

The Waffler

You're not the most decisive person. You tend to be unsure what you want out of your attachments, and it's unlikely you've had more than mediocre relationships.... Read more

The Stone

You have hidden your need for emotional attachment so deep that not even you can access it. You're a complete pragmatist. You're not interested in companionship - just mutually beneficial partnersh... Read more

The Squid

You seem to be missing you backbone, but possess myriad sucking tentacles of emotional need. Like many invertebrates, squid appear limp and squishy—but once you get a grip on someone, you're incredi... Read more

The Doormat

You are uncomfortable getting close to others. You want emotionally close relationships, but you find it difficult to trust others completely. You don't believe you deserve very much, so you don't ... Read more

The Free Agent

You like to be independent, to play by your own rules. You're not terribly interested in finding a partner and settling down, and it makes you nervous to imagine that someone might depend on you fo... Read more

The Player

You are most comfortable without close emotional relationships. It is very important to you to feel independent and self-sufficient, and you hate the idea of having to depend on others or having ot... Read more

The Hermit

You prefer to be alone, without strong emotional ties. You know from experience that people usually leave anyway, and that it's probably best that you don't get too attached. You prefer plenty of a... Read more

The Exile

You are uncomfortable getting close to others. You want emotionally close relationships, but you find it difficult to trust others completely. You feel that people don't fully understand you, and t... Read more

The Leper

You are uncomfortable getting close to others. You don't trust anyone, including yourself. You'll take whatever you can get, but you certainly don't blame everyone for leaving. You'd leave, too, if... Read more

The Insect

You want to be emotionally intimate with others, but you find that others are reluctant to get as close as you would like. You don't have very high self-esteem, which leaves you with a bit of a ten... Read more

The Cling Wrap

You want to be completely emotionally intimate with others, but you often find that others are reluctant to get as close as you would like. You are uncomfortable being without close relationships, ... Read more

The Cuddleslut

You're mostly secure, but sometimes you need a little extra reassurance to make it through the tough times. You are usually affectionate and sweet, and you find it easy to fall in love. An encourag... Read more

The Error Message

You seem to have fallen through a tiny crack in my scoring system. Stand by. I'm working on it. Read more

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