The Attachment Style Test
The Free Agent
You like to be independent, to play by your own rules. You're not terribly interested in finding a partner and settling down, and it makes you nervous to imagine that someone might depend on you for anything. Were you to find the right partner--someone as independent as you, probably--you'd not be too put out about sharing your adventures with him/her.
Fictional characters with whom you might identify: Han Solo (Star Wars), Beatrice ("Much Ado About Nothing")
| Other Attachment Types: | |||||
| Secure: | The Unicorn | | | The Cuddleslut | | | The Free Agent |
| Preoccupied: | The Cling Wrap | | | The Squid | | | The Insect |
| Fearful: | The Doormat | | | The Leper | | | The Exile |
| Dismissing: | The Hermit | | | The Stone | | | The Player |
| Confused: | The Waffler |
All possible test results
The Unicorn
You're a rare beast: A person nearly completely secure with yourself and with others. You're just as comfortable in long term relationships as you are single. You have a lot to offer anyone you cho... Read more
The Waffler
You're not the most decisive person. You tend to be unsure what you want out of your attachments, and it's unlikely you've had more than mediocre relationships.... Read more
The Stone
You have hidden your need for emotional attachment so deep that not even you can access it. You're a complete pragmatist. You're not interested in companionship - just mutually beneficial partnersh... Read more
The Squid
You seem to be missing you backbone, but possess myriad sucking tentacles of emotional need. Like many invertebrates, squid appear limp and squishy—but once you get a grip on someone, you're incredi... Read more
The Doormat
You are uncomfortable getting close to others. You want emotionally close relationships, but you find it difficult to trust others completely. You don't believe you deserve very much, so you don't ... Read more
The Free Agent
You like to be independent, to play by your own rules. You're not terribly interested in finding a partner and settling down, and it makes you nervous to imagine that someone might depend on you fo... Read more
The Player
You are most comfortable without close emotional relationships. It is very important to you to feel independent and self-sufficient, and you hate the idea of having to depend on others or having ot... Read more
The Hermit
You prefer to be alone, without strong emotional ties. You know from experience that people usually leave anyway, and that it's probably best that you don't get too attached. You prefer plenty of a... Read more
The Exile
You are uncomfortable getting close to others. You want emotionally close relationships, but you find it difficult to trust others completely. You feel that people don't fully understand you, and t... Read more
The Leper
You are uncomfortable getting close to others. You don't trust anyone, including yourself. You'll take whatever you can get, but you certainly don't blame everyone for leaving. You'd leave, too, if... Read more
The Insect
You want to be emotionally intimate with others, but you find that others are reluctant to get as close as you would like. You don't have very high self-esteem, which leaves you with a bit of a ten... Read more
The Cling Wrap
You want to be completely emotionally intimate with others, but you often find that others are reluctant to get as close as you would like. You are uncomfortable being without close relationships, ... Read more
The Cuddleslut
You're mostly secure, but sometimes you need a little extra reassurance to make it through the tough times. You are usually affectionate and sweet, and you find it easy to fall in love. An encourag... Read more
The Error Message
You seem to have fallen through a tiny crack in my scoring system. Stand by. I'm working on it. Read more
