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ESFJ

You scored 60 Flow of Energy, 40 Info Processing, 60 Decision Making, and 0 Lifestyle!

ESFJ

ESFJs are warmly caring people who give their intimate relationships a lot of special care and attention. They're usually traditional and take their commitments very seriously. Once the ESFJ has said "I do", you can bet that they will put forth every effort to fulfill their obligations to the relationship.

ESFJs want to be appreciated for who they are, and what they give to others. This need of theirs is sometimes intensified to the point where they are very emotionally needy, and constantly "go fishing" for affirmation if it is not freely given. ESFJs typically cannot stand conflict or criticism. They take any sort of criticism as a general indictment of their character. This is a potential pitfall for ESFJs to be aware of. In the face of negative feedback, or the absence of positive affirmation, ESFJ may become very depressed and down on themselves. Appreciation is the greatest gift that their mates can give them.

ESFJs have a tendency to be very conscious of social status and "what other people think". They should take care not to let this interfere with their close relationships.

Sexually, ESFJs are warm and loving, and welcome intimacy as an opportunity to express their affections, and receive their partners gifts of love. Many ESFJs have a tendency to be highly scheduled and traditional in their sexual habits, but this is almost always overcome by increasing their education and awareness of options. ESFJs are very service-oriented and will place a lot of importance on making their partners happy.

Being highly practical, the ESFJ is excellent in matters regarding home management. They're likely to be very responsible about taking care of day-to-day needs, and to be careful and cautious about money matters. They are interested in security and peaceful living, and are willing and able to do their part towards acheiving these goals for themselves, their mates, and their families.

Most ESFJs have a strong need to "belong" - whether it be to institutions or traditions, or family units. This need usually causes them to be quite social creatures, who enjoy attending parties, as well as throwing their own. They're likely to strongly desire that their mates share in their social experiences.

Although two well-developed individuals of any type can enjoy a healthy relationship, ESFJ's natural partner is the ISFP, or the INFP.

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Their Analysis (Vertical line = Average)

  • Flow of Energy Distribution

    They scored 60% on Flow of Energy, higher than 63% of your peers.

  • Info Processing Distribution

    They scored 40% on Info Processing, higher than 30% of your peers.

  • Decision Making Distribution

    They scored 60% on Decision Making, higher than 34% of your peers.

  • Lifestyle Distribution

    They scored 0% on Lifestyle, higher than 20% of your peers.

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ISTP

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ISFJ

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ISFP

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INTJ

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INTP

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INFJ

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INFP

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ESTJ

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ESTP

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ESFJ

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ESFP

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ENTJ

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ENTP

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ENFJ

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ENFP

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