Their result for Sexual Style Test ...
The Bear is your primary type.
- Avoids conflict
- Expresses anger indirectly
Sexually a Bear:
- Has difficulty asserting and initiating
- Works hard to please partner
- Is not orgasm focused
- Prefers to ignore a problem rather than confront it
- Likes to hear sexy talk, but isn't as comfortable talking
Your secondary type is the Bee.
- Well Organized
Sexually a Bee:
- Is subject to performance anxiety
- Measures orgasms and times ejaculations
- Enjoys creating an outstanding experience for a partner
- Strives to be technically "perfect"
- Orchestrates sex carefully
- Has difficulty relaxing or being spontaneous
As a Bear/Bee, you are likely to be attracted to Lion or Lion/Otter types. This is because you're attracted to those who possess the traits you lack. "Opposites attract" is a bad cliche, but there was a grain of truth behind it.
The trick to keeping that initial spark surviving as a longer-term relationship is the flexibility of your style, and the style of your partner. Each partner can use the relationship as an opportunity to learn from the other's style to balance their own. If they can't develop that flexibility and move to meet each other in the middle, "I admire how laid back you are" becomes "I can't stand how you're always so aloof"; "I love how you're always confident and taking charge" becomes "I hate how bossy you are."
For more on this, please pick up the book "Extraordinary Sex Now" by Sandra R. Scantling. I stole the whole questionnaire straight out of it.
Their Analysis (Vertical line = Average)
They scored 6% on Play, higher than 7% of your peers.
They scored 9% on Energize, higher than 30% of your peers.
They scored 11% on Work, higher than 75% of your peers.
They scored 14% on Stabilize, higher than 86% of your peers.
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