Their result for The Benevolence Test ...

In Limbo

61% Purity, 62% Caring, 71% Generous, 81% Affectionate, 59% Enthusiastic and 41% Available!

Okay, pull up a chair.  We're gonna have a little talk.  There are one or more areas of your life where you're a little stuck.  You're not completely far gone, by any means, but we really need to take a look at what's happening.  Something's stopping you from moving forward to shine the way you were really meant to.  You see that picture over there? -------------------->>   That's you (in female form, of course).  You have angels all around you, but you just can't see it.  Something's blocking your perception to see beyond your own desires, or the illusions that bombard you.  You have no idea of the many potent resources that are at your disposal.  Perhaps you've started out in this life in a particularly difficult situation.  The thing is, you haven't found a way to crawl out of the hole and heal what ails you.  You might be feeling lost a lot of the time. Or, more often than not, nothing seems to go your way.  Or, suddenly and without warning, things blow up and come crashing down on you.

The biggest challenge for you is realizing your own power.  Perhaps you were raised in an environment where other people were excessively dominant and/or negligent.  Or, somehow you've come to feel that other people's opinions, expectations, or ways of doing things are more important or valid than your own.  So much so that you have trouble realizing your own sense of self.  The really tricky part of all this is that sometimes this may manifest either as being somewhat self absorbed and insensitive to others; and/or not being true to and assertive enough for yourself.  Do you feel that being in a true romantic partnership would mean that you would end up getting "nagged" all the time?  Conversely, do you find that your partners are usually the ones to break off relationships?  Both of these are strong signals that either one or both people's needs aren't being recognized, heard, and responded to.

In order to gain a stronger sense of your best and most authentic self, as well as develop the ability to manifest a healthy relationship, you need to enter into a phase of dynamic introspection.  This means shifting your approach so that you have ample opportunity to know what you really want, and realize what's best for yourself both within each moment, as well as in the long run.  Equally important, during this time you would practice relating to others with impeccable compassion. This might look like letting others "do their own thing" when it would ordinarily bother you.  Or, it might mean patiently sticking around when you would usually leave. Your growth is in developing a healthy inner detachment from others reactions and personal imperfections so that you can practice both detecting, accepting, and supporting what they really need; while attuning to and taking particular care of the most vulnerable parts of yourself at the same time.  Often this goes hand-in-hand with grieving what you don't have on a relatively deep level.  In order to not only "live and let live" but ultimately to relax, rejoice, inspire, evolve, and breathe a cosmic sigh of relief, we need to be willing to hold all that is inside of us with tenderness and care, and relate to others from this abundantly fertile place.

Okay, I admit, this might sound like a lot of work, especially at first.  But the degree of investment that you are willing to make directly correlates to your ability to tap into your innate strengths just waiting beneath the surface: stability, resilience, confidence, creativity, sapience, exuberance, and unyielding joyful contentment - - and that's just for starters.

* * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *  Be-ne-vo-lence. Adjective. Having or showing or arising from a desire to promote the welfare or happiness of others. An act intending or showing kindness and good will. An inclination to perform kind, charitable acts. A disposition to do good.

* * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * Jaspen’s professional life is in offering consultations on “Manifesting your personal potential and highest Self”. She offers private live online sessions at http://coaching.bitwine.com/advisors/jaspen and in-person sessions at her woodland sanctuary in Nevada City, California. She has a Masters degree in Counseling Psychology.   Jaspen is a current member of OKCupid, and usually dwells as a “Patron Saint”, yet occasionally appears at both her “Joyful Sprite”, and “Guardian Angel” personas.  She has had ample experience at being a “Fledgling”, and worked very hard in her younger days to come out of her youth "In Limbo".  We each have our “Fallen One” moments too, so she’s seen, and been, it all.  Feel free to contact Jaspen if you would like to inquire about arranging a personal session of your own.  She would be honored to hear from you.

* * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * Won't you please do me a truly benevolent favor and rate this test?  Please, with sugar on top?  And a cherry?  And whipped cream in all-the-right-places???

Their Analysis (Vertical line = Average)

  • Purity Distribution

    They scored 61% on Purity, higher than 27% of your peers.

  • Caring Distribution

    They scored 62% on Caring, higher than 43% of your peers.

  • Generous Distribution

    They scored 71% on Generous, higher than 56% of your peers.

  • Enthusiastic Distribution

    They scored 59% on Enthusiastic, higher than 11% of your peers.

  • Available Distribution

    They scored 41% on Available, higher than 12% of your peers.

  • Affectionate Distribution

    They scored 81% on Affectionate, higher than 50% of your peers.

All possible test results

Guardian Angel

Whoa!  I think I need to sit down. You are one rare find/... Read more

Patron Saint

Not Bad!  You scored pretty high on most of the categories. In fact, you are coming along quite nicely, I must say.  Perhaps you are a bit reserved in your attentiveness.  Just a little bit caut... Read more

Joyful Sprite

Well, well, well.  We are having some fun, aren't we?  You are in the midst of transforming from one world to another.  This life h... Read more

Fledgling

Good morning, Star Shine!  You are newly awakening to the possibility that you can create the life that you really want.  You've begun to get a taste of your spec... Read more

In Limbo

Okay, pull up a chair.  We're gonna have a little talk.  There are one or more areas of your life where you're a little stuck.  You're not completely far gone, by any means, but we really need t... Read more

Fallen One

Hello, this is your conscience speaking.  Remember me?  It's been a while, hasn't it.  Well, I gotta tell ya, this does not look good.  When it comes to being ready for a real relationsh... Read more

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