• This test is intended to measure how much of a considerate lover you are. You will be presented with scenarios and questions that will reveal the inner workings of your heart and describe how you treat that special someone in your life. When answering the questions, pretend you're in a relationship with someone that you care about, if you aren't already. Try to answer the questions as honestly as possible based on what you have done in the past and what you're likely to do in the future.