Ok, so this test is from The Five Love Languages for Singles by Gary Chapman. He has several books on this subject (where I received one as a present). I thought it was a very interesting, a helpful read, and should be on OkCupid for others to benefit.
Ever feel like someone didn't love you enough and they said, "Well of course I do! I [blah blah blah], and I [blah blah blah]. Doesn't that prove my love to you??" ...And then you disagreed that those things proved anything?
Well maybe you guys were just communicating affection differently (I don't mean sexual affection). Gary Chapman believes that there are 5 specific languages of love: QUALITY TIME, WORDS OF AFFIRMATION, GIFTS, ACTS OF SERVICE, and PHYSICAL TOUCH).
Identifying how you best recognize love/affection and knowing how people in your life (coworkers, friends, family, lovers, etc) recognize love/affection can improve your relationships with them. Have your friends/loved ones take this test too and see if you're getting your wires crossed.
Enjoy!
